Mymble wrote:Klasifikovany wrote:Mymble wrote:
its very hard. last time she visited was a couple of months ago, and it was so incredibly difficult seeing her like that. she woke up in the night and unlocked our door, and then got lost in the house. luckily she didnt go outside. she recognizes us, but she had trouble placing my mother when she straightened her hair
and she would ask about my new tattoo the whole evening because she forgot after a few minutes that i had gotten it
i dont really know how to talk about it, i just repeat myself everytime she asks the same questions
when did you guys start noticing? is she aware of it herself?
yeah i think that is so difficult, i noticed with my family member when she asked me the same question twice within a minute just as i was done answering and i was like oof uncomfortable i'll just say "we'll see" instead because i don't want to be dismissive two times it's difficult enough to say no to visit once i didn't want to do it twice
we noticed a couple of years ago actually, she started to repeat herself more frequently
but her husband refused to acknowledge it. i think shes kind of aware of it? like she takes steps to be as safe as possible, like not driving, has her husband with her at all times (even on very short car rides with the family), but i dont know if she is aware of what it is? im not 100% sure tho
and yeah, answering the same questions is difficult. cause for you its been like 15 of the same questions, while she thinks shes only asked once. so if you're dismissive she might wonder why (but then ask again a while later)
so i just answer the same way all the times, cause i dont know when it will "stick" if that makes sense
that's sad, has her husband acknowledged it now?