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PaintItPink wrote:
were long distance (two different countries with different languages)
im still in uni doing my bachelors which ill be done with start of 2024...
and every time i ask him like to think about when we would move in together hes like
idk what the future holds but that hes ready to move to a new country with me (which cant be where i live tho cos he doesnt speak the language)...
and to me its just like so inconcrete at this point that i cant really see us ever having a life together
his mindset is apparently 'itll work out' or maybe hes just glad were together until ive got my degree?? maybe thats all he wants???
and theres a different problem as well with him now
i hang around with a group of people, and there is a guy. said guy, has when he very first met me, not knowing i was in a relationship,made a comment about how hed like to kiss me to which i answered that i definitely wouldnt kiss him^^
but yes, ever since hes kinda part of our group cos he was friends with one of the group already.
and now everytime i hang out with the group and THAT guy, my bf comments on how its wrong that i 'spend so much time with him'. and it is just annoying me, i didnt choose for him to be there and its not like i talk to him more than to others in that group. i cant just look for a different group of friends cos this is the only one i got, which he just doesnt seem to really understand.
then i say to my bf what do you want me to do? are you asking i stop hanging out with them?? to which he replies no, but he just doesnt like it and he just wants to say how he feels...
were long distance (two different countries with different languages)
im still in uni doing my bachelors which ill be done with start of 2024...
and every time i ask him like to think about when we would move in together hes like
idk what the future holds but that hes ready to move to a new country with me (which cant be where i live tho cos he doesnt speak the language)...
and to me its just like so inconcrete at this point that i cant really see us ever having a life together
his mindset is apparently 'itll work out' or maybe hes just glad were together until ive got my degree?? maybe thats all he wants???
and theres a different problem as well with him now
i hang around with a group of people, and there is a guy. said guy, has when he very first met me, not knowing i was in a relationship,made a comment about how hed like to kiss me to which i answered that i definitely wouldnt kiss him^^
but yes, ever since hes kinda part of our group cos he was friends with one of the group already.
and now everytime i hang out with the group and THAT guy, my bf comments on how its wrong that i 'spend so much time with him'. and it is just annoying me, i didnt choose for him to be there and its not like i talk to him more than to others in that group. i cant just look for a different group of friends cos this is the only one i got, which he just doesnt seem to really understand.
then i say to my bf what do you want me to do? are you asking i stop hanging out with them?? to which he replies no, but he just doesnt like it and he just wants to say how he feels...
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