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I am so angry
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scoff wrote:
Bf was supposed to be at work an hour ago but he's asleep and gets mad when  I try to wake him  
He feels sorry for himself because he has to work and thinks that it's unfair because he doesn't like working lol as if everybody else does??? He doesn't want to do anything that's boring and his number one priority is always HIM 

Sigh I just want to kick him out

Also his car finally broke down
A car that EVERYONE said not to buy but did he listen? No because it looked good and has lots of horse power gahhhhhhhhhhhh 
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Date: 06-12-2022 08:01
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o7Goner wrote:
Jesus, sounds like a fucking trainwreck.

Dump his ass
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Date: 06-12-2022 08:08
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scoff wrote:
RedCrate wrote:
Jesus, sounds like a fucking trainwreck.

Dump his ass
Yeach idk how tho we've a kid 
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Date: 06-12-2022 08:12
O7Goner
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o7Goner wrote:
scoff wrote:
RedCrate wrote:
Jesus, sounds like a fucking trainwreck.

Dump his ass
Yeach idk how tho we've a kid 
Way to complicate it much
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Date: 06-12-2022 08:36
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Babel wrote:
Please mention some things you like about your boyfriend because I haven't seen you say anything redeeming about him at all on VP, and I am just wondering why you keep staying.
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Date: 06-12-2022 09:24
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remains wrote:
DeIure wrote:
Please mention some things you like about your boyfriend because I haven't seen you say anything redeeming about him at all on VP, and I am just wondering why you keep staying.
litrally everyone complaining about their boyfies on vp it's so sad
if someone wont tell me soon their relationship is wholesome and stable im gonna start thinking that straight ppl r hopeless fr !
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Date: 06-12-2022 10:46
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Babel wrote:
bones wrote:
DeIure wrote:
Please mention some things you like about your boyfriend because I haven't seen you say anything redeeming about him at all on VP, and I am just wondering why you keep staying.
litrally everyone complaining about their boyfies on vp it's so sad
if someone wont tell me soon their relationship is wholesome and stable im gonna start thinking that straight ppl r hopeless fr !
I kind of get it, because it's nice to vent frustrations somewhere else to not hurt your relationship too much, but if people never mention anything nice about their SO it just looks like a toxic relationship to everyone else.
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Date: 06-12-2022 10:54
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scoff wrote:
DeIure wrote:
Please mention some things you like about your boyfriend because I haven't seen you say anything redeeming about him at all on VP, and I am just wondering why you keep staying.

I mean aside from being lazy af and drinking too much, there's nothing more to complain about. He doesn't abuse me. When he's sober, he's a great dad to our son. He cares. 
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Date: 07-12-2022 09:10
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devilcake wrote:
DeIure wrote:
bones wrote:
DeIure wrote:
Please mention some things you like about your boyfriend because I haven't seen you say anything redeeming about him at all on VP, and I am just wondering why you keep staying.
litrally everyone complaining about their boyfies on vp it's so sad
if someone wont tell me soon their relationship is wholesome and stable im gonna start thinking that straight ppl r hopeless fr !
I kind of get it, because it's nice to vent frustrations somewhere else to not hurt your relationship too much, but if people never mention anything nice about their SO it just looks like a toxic relationship to everyone else.
I think the ones who frequently talk about their relationships on here/ make dedicated threads for it are the ones who are in bad/toxic ones 

bc if ur in a happy relationship there’s less reason to make a dedicated thread for it
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Date: 07-12-2022 09:18
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devilcake wrote:
scoff wrote:
DeIure wrote:
Please mention some things you like about your boyfriend because I haven't seen you say anything redeeming about him at all on VP, and I am just wondering why you keep staying.

I mean aside from being lazy af and drinking too much, there's nothing more to complain about. He doesn't abuse me. When he's sober, he's a great dad to our son. He cares. 
That’s a very low bar ….
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Date: 07-12-2022 09:18
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Babel wrote:
devilcake wrote:
DeIure wrote:
bones wrote:
litrally everyone complaining about their boyfies on vp it's so sad
if someone wont tell me soon their relationship is wholesome and stable im gonna start thinking that straight ppl r hopeless fr !
I kind of get it, because it's nice to vent frustrations somewhere else to not hurt your relationship too much, but if people never mention anything nice about their SO it just looks like a toxic relationship to everyone else.
I think the ones who frequently talk about their relationships on here/ make dedicated threads for it are the ones who are in bad/toxic ones 

bc if ur in a happy relationship there’s less reason to make a dedicated thread for it
That's true. Usually it's not the small things that makes you frustrated enough to vent.
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Date: 07-12-2022 09:36
Ashnikko
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Ashnikko wrote:
All these vents threads makes me scared of going into relationship
So much commitment and what if they turn out to be ass 
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Date: 07-12-2022 09:40
Ashnikko
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Ashnikko wrote:
At least moving together would be scary asf, because it’s not like you just kick them out of your house and leave them in cold 
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Date: 07-12-2022 09:41
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Babel wrote:
scoff wrote:
DeIure wrote:
Please mention some things you like about your boyfriend because I haven't seen you say anything redeeming about him at all on VP, and I am just wondering why you keep staying.

I mean aside from being lazy af and drinking too much, there's nothing more to complain about. He doesn't abuse me. When he's sober, he's a great dad to our son. He cares. 
If he cares why doesn't he get help with his drinking problem? I'm sorry, but this really seems like the bare minimum you're mentioning as positive things here, and if that's the whole picture I will be honest and say you can do better.

I know it's an uncertain time after having a child together, but if you're considering throwing him out, I would honestly recommend you to explore your feelings as to why you don't think your relationship is working and whether it's something you want your child and yourself to live with.
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Date: 07-12-2022 09:44
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Babel wrote:
Infinitevoid wrote:
At least moving together would be scary asf, because it’s not like you just kick them out of your house and leave them in cold 
If you're in an okay financial position and have family around it's honestly not too bad I think? You can then temporarily move while you start your lives apart. 

My boyfriend and I also considered this, and we decided to choose an apartment to live in, where it was possible to live as roommates if our relationship didn't work, so we had some time to find something new before breaking it off. We've been going for almost 4 years now though, so I'm not that worried about it.

I also think you see more negative relationships online than what most people actually experience. It's easy to vent online about your relationship, but most people don't share the joy and happiness they feel in their relationship as well, so you get half a picture (and probably the whole picture if it's a toxic relationship)
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Date: 07-12-2022 09:49
Ashnikko
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Ashnikko wrote:
DeIure wrote:
Infinitevoid wrote:
At least moving together would be scary asf, because it’s not like you just kick them out of your house and leave them in cold 
If you're in an okay financial position and have family around it's honestly not too bad I think? You can then temporarily move while you start your lives apart. 

My boyfriend and I also considered this, and we decided to choose an apartment to live in, where it was possible to live as roommates if our relationship didn't work, so we had some time to find something new before breaking it off. We've been going for almost 4 years now though, so I'm not that worried about it.

I also think you see more negative relationships online than what most people actually experience. It's easy to vent online about your relationship, but most people don't share the joy and happiness they feel in their relationship as well, so you get half a picture (and probably the whole picture if it's a toxic relationship)
I mean guess yeah if can afford to move out of the apartment you both live in it’s fine but still takes time to move out and depending on how you break up would feel uncomfortable having everything you own with in reach for the other person

Toxic relationships or break ups overall feel common af at least from people I know
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Date: 07-12-2022 10:15
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