hmm wrote:Sylvan wrote:
My options are basically:
Life on government support and work part time and live in a small flat in a town/city. Maybe finding a romantic partner, being able to be out of the closet, no conservative village in my back.
Being miserable because I will miss my cat and living close to nature and having my silence. Being totally cut off from my family. Having the role of my estranged aunt in the family and probably not inheriting any part of the house I grew up in
Life in my parent's house in the countryside, indefinitely, being miserable because of my mother and my sister picking on me, having to take the bus to work every day being dependent on the lousy public transportation, living with my father's expectations, being treated worse than my sister because I won't have kids, probably never being able to be fully out, always living with my mother's shame and guilt tripping, being shamed for not being able to work full time, having a bad name in the village
why on government support?
because you can't survive on a part time job, especially in the city so you usually get help with rent from the government.