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ctrl wrote:
I'd say no for now; if you need someone who is right by your side that you can have an open line of communication with when things are hard and don't believe in breaks to readjust then she isn't the one for you, she doesn't have the same level of devotion

I'd consider maybe what was going on with her in her life at the time you were admitted and if there are a lot of other red flags; to not be there in your time of need is definitely a sign of much worse to come 
but you could eventually approach her as a friend if that's something you'd still want and give her room to explain
 

Bloodflowers wrote:
To keep this short I broke up with my girlfriend because she wanted to take a break from me because I was admitted to the hospital. I broke up with her because I felt she was running away as soon as it got a little tough and she wasn’t there when I needed. She said she still loved me tho and that she wanted me to write to her when I was released.
I am now released from the hospital but idk if I should reach out to her or not. Would you?

Claire wrote:
there are people who will love you and also  be there for you during your challenges.