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i feel so AAHGGHHHHH
Zuli
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zuli wrote:
so long story short, around 2 weeks ago my bf told me we should give our relationship a break, and i was like ok it could've been worse i guess, mainly bc he said he wanted to focus on his mental health, which i really found extremely valid!!

the thing is, i started to feel miserable bc he basically told me that he didn't want to "drag me along his self healing journey" or whatever? which i also kinda understood? but at the same time i took full offence to that bc i wanted to help him and he just doesn't want me to be involved w him in any way when it comes to this specific thing

however

i just found out he's been seeing some other girl and they made a spotify playlist called "romance" together and i just couldn't hide what i felt anymore.
i just feel like ABSOLUTE SHIT bc it hasn't even been a mONTH and my heart feels so heavy rn
i love him so much and he just. started seeing someone else. just like that? if he had broken up with me officially or told me hey i just found someone else it'd been more understandable but ???? THIS IS HIS "MENTAL HEALTH" BREAK???? FW SOME OTHER GIRL??? what????

and to top it all off THIS GIRL HAS MY EXACT SAME NAME (fyi my name is NOT COMMON AT ALL, so i just feel ??????????????)

what the fuck am i even supposed to feel

i just want to curl up into a ball and cry
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Date: 14-07-2023 17:57
Zuli
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zuli wrote:
sorry for the rant but WHAT?????
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Date: 14-07-2023 17:58
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Maxwell wrote:
one hell ov a mental health break !

Do u hav her socials or smthin, msg her ask whas poppin how well she knos him 
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Date: 14-07-2023 18:13
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Arthema wrote:
confront the man and if he cannot actually say anything that is intelligible and is not a stinky excuse,
dump his ass

better yet confront the chick if you know her or might know of a way to contact her, she might not know that you are in the picture, or better yet she KNOWS and well ))))
makes things worse

I love when people use that shit and think they can get away from stuff when people that actually suffer and need the help are either laughed at or ignored lol

The fact your names are the same yet it is not common at all... laughable honestly, I don't have the full story but I am almost certain that it's not just mental health here, but more so the guy has no spine whatsoever,
disgusted
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Date: 14-07-2023 18:16
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Arthema wrote:
Can I ask like
How long you've been together?
How long has he been in that state and if you guys had any problems because of that?
You aren't his therapist but you ARE his partner and if he could never lean on you for comfort or fall back on you... das a problem
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Date: 14-07-2023 18:18
Zuli
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zuli wrote:
Maxwell wrote:
one hell ov a mental health break !

Do u hav her socials or smthin, msg her ask whas poppin how well she knos him 
i wish i could msg her but i don't know her at all unfortunately :/
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Date: 14-07-2023 18:39
Zuli
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zuli wrote:
Abby wrote:
Can I ask like
How long you've been together?
How long has he been in that state and if you guys had any problems because of that?
You aren't his therapist but you ARE his partner and if he could never lean on you for comfort or fall back on you... das a problem
i've known him for like 12 years, but we'd been together since dec 2021

he started being weird since the first day he told ab this girl bc she works in the same field he's majoring in and he was introduced to her by his proffessor.

he's always been very brick-like when it comes to confronting his emotions and we've had fights ab that specific trait of his, cuz well, i'd always try to help him and he'd always just shut down and tell me to leave him alone since he processes emotions that way. i told him to get therapy multiple times since well, he'd always shut down.


i don't even want to bring this up bc technically i found this playlist snooping around his spotify looking for a specific playlist he made a while back.
im so mad ab this whole thing bc he's been cheated on multiple times in the past and i find so very cruel that he might've came up with this method of "soft leaving me" so if i ever complain he could prob say something like "well i mean we weren't together together yk"
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Date: 14-07-2023 18:49
Zuli
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zuli wrote:
idek if im mad im just so appalled lmao
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Date: 14-07-2023 18:50
Zuli
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zuli wrote:
zuli wrote:
Abby wrote:
Can I ask like
How long you've been together?
How long has he been in that state and if you guys had any problems because of that?
You aren't his therapist but you ARE his partner and if he could never lean on you for comfort or fall back on you... das a problem
i've known him for like 12 years, but we'd been together since dec 2021

he started being weird since the first day he told ab this girl bc she works in the same field he's majoring in and he was introduced to her by his proffessor.
by weird i mean he'd barely talk to me, leave me on delivered/seen and avoid any sign of "romance" i gave him
literally i once told him smth like "oh i thought ab u all day blalblabla" and he literally changed the topic completely lmao
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Date: 14-07-2023 18:52
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Arthema wrote:
zuli wrote:
Abby wrote:
Can I ask like
How long you've been together?
How long has he been in that state and if you guys had any problems because of that?
You aren't his therapist but you ARE his partner and if he could never lean on you for comfort or fall back on you... das a problem
i've known him for like 12 years, but we'd been together since dec 2021

he started being weird since the first day he told ab this girl bc she works in the same field he's majoring in and he was introduced to her by his proffessor.

he's always been very brick-like when it comes to confronting his emotions and we've had fights ab that specific trait of his, cuz well, i'd always try to help him and he'd always just shut down and tell me to leave him alone since he processes emotions that way. i told him to get therapy multiple times since well, he'd always shut down.


i don't even want to bring this up bc technically i found this playlist snooping around his spotify looking for a specific playlist he made a while back.
im so mad ab this whole thing bc he's been cheated on multiple times in the past and i find so very cruel that he might've came up with this method of "soft leaving me" so if i ever complain he could prob say something like "well i mean we weren't together together yk"
yeaaaaaaaahh that is not "mental health" he has most lkely DID something that makes him slowly pull away from you
confrontation and dump him
despicable 
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Date: 14-07-2023 19:30
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Siggus wrote:
I don't want to be too mean but ew he sounds gross as hell, sounds like used mental health as an excuse to not be honest about his feelings. It's probably not what you want to hear right now, but you're better off without him
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Date: 14-07-2023 19:45
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