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so my ex was manipulative, kinda emotionally abusive and he violated my boundaries all the time. he tried to push me into having a child "while i travel the world and you can stay here to take care of the kid, but don't worry, i'll be an amazing father" etc. and he was a conspiracy nut. and 38 years old when i was 20
we were together for 3-4 years and i left him 2 years ago. he blew up when i did that, he called me a whore and a thief etc. so i haven't talked to him at all after that, he's texted me a few times and i've ignored it. i also know he has a girlfriend now.
yesterday he tried to call me out of the blue and then texted this: "hi elina! i wanted to with you happy Lucia's day. how are you doing nowadays?
" i left him on read. then later yesterday and this morning he sent this:
"my darling elina. i don't understand why you turned your back on me. i would had wanted to care about you in my life. i just wanted to give you a good life with me. i wanted to give you love and only support you in life. you are such a dear person to me." "you're lovely and i miss you! i just wanted to say this. "
what do i do?? obviously i want nothing to do with him, he has traumatized me enough and i could not resent him more. makes me so angry that he has to stir up my life again (he called me from a new number btw so i didn't know who it was.) i'm also with an amazing, supportive and emotionally available partner now and i hate that he has to hear about this shithead as well. should i reply something or just block him? help?
we were together for 3-4 years and i left him 2 years ago. he blew up when i did that, he called me a whore and a thief etc. so i haven't talked to him at all after that, he's texted me a few times and i've ignored it. i also know he has a girlfriend now.
yesterday he tried to call me out of the blue and then texted this: "hi elina! i wanted to with you happy Lucia's day. how are you doing nowadays?
" i left him on read. then later yesterday and this morning he sent this:"my darling elina. i don't understand why you turned your back on me. i would had wanted to care about you in my life. i just wanted to give you a good life with me. i wanted to give you love and only support you in life. you are such a dear person to me.
" "you're lovely and i miss you! i just wanted to say this. " what do i do?? obviously i want nothing to do with him, he has traumatized me enough and i could not resent him more. makes me so angry that he has to stir up my life again (he called me from a new number btw so i didn't know who it was.) i'm also with an amazing, supportive and emotionally available partner now and i hate that he has to hear about this shithead as well. should i reply something or just block him? help?
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