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Sylvan wrote:
I'm in my 'I'm the worst' era once again

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devilcake wrote:
are you crushing on another 40 year old?

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devilcake wrote:
u know the older u get the less of a problem that is

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Sylvan wrote:

devilcake wrote:
are you crushing on another 40 year old?

Nah and 40yo would be fine at my age tbh. Wouldn't be a much bigger gap than my sister and her bf's who is 9 years older than her lol

But no, that's not it. I had this casual thing going with this girl from my former uni town for the last 2 weeks which isn't like me at all but I kinda ghosted her when she wanted to meet more often because it turns out that I'm not that into her after all and I just need to be honest with her and end it and it's been such a short timeshe will probably understand but I kinda don't want to have that conversation... I'm such an asshole apparently who knew

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Sobbing wrote:

Sylvan wrote:

devilcake wrote:
are you crushing on another 40 year old?

Nah and 40yo would be fine at my age tbh. Wouldn't be a much bigger gap than my sister and her bf's who is 9 years older than her lol

But no, that's not it. I had this casual thing going with this girl from my former uni town for the last 2 weeks which isn't like me at all but I kinda ghosted her when she wanted to meet more often because it turns out that I'm not that into her after all and I just need to be honest with her and end it and it's been such a short timeshe will probably understand but I kinda don't want to have that conversation... I'm such an asshole apparently who knew

you really are
honesty should be a virtue that you extend if you expect that back from others sylvan

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toraix wrote:

Sylvan wrote:

devilcake wrote:
are you crushing on another 40 year old?

Nah and 40yo would be fine at my age tbh. Wouldn't be a much bigger gap than my sister and her bf's who is 9 years older than her lol

But no, that's not it. I had this casual thing going with this girl from my former uni town for the last 2 weeks which isn't like me at all but I kinda ghosted her when she wanted to meet more often because it turns out that I'm not that into her after all and I just need to be honest with her and end it and it's been such a short timeshe will probably understand but I kinda don't want to have that conversation... I'm such an asshole apparently who knew

honestly at that point i would go max-asshole and just block them on everywhere just to be a menace and not explain why

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Sylvan wrote:

Sobbing wrote:

Sylvan wrote:

devilcake wrote:
are you crushing on another 40 year old?

Nah and 40yo would be fine at my age tbh. Wouldn't be a much bigger gap than my sister and her bf's who is 9 years older than her lol

But no, that's not it. I had this casual thing going with this girl from my former uni town for the last 2 weeks which isn't like me at all but I kinda ghosted her when she wanted to meet more often because it turns out that I'm not that into her after all and I just need to be honest with her and end it and it's been such a short timeshe will probably understand but I kinda don't want to have that conversation... I'm such an asshole apparently who knew

you really are
honesty should be a virtue that you extend if you expect that back from others sylvan

I kinda want to avoid an ugly situation because she went full uhaul on me 😭

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Sylvan wrote:
okay I texted her if we could talk and now she's not answering me which is kind of a relief...

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toraix wrote:

Sylvan wrote:
okay I texted her if we could talk and now she's not answering me which is kind of a relief...

hopefully she gets the hint