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UPDATE: advice needed, internet friends
88x
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88x wrote:
UPDATE: the update is in what i last wrote in the thread :d

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i do not make posts
BUT THIS IS A DIRE SITUATION

tomorrow I'm going on a date with this girl I met on a dating app
we spoke on and off for about a month, then she asked me on a date and I said yes because IDK!!! I don't feel anything romantic towards her, at least not atm...
part of me was like "why not, maybe it'll be fun!!" and another part of me was like "hmmmmm I don't even like her that way sad did I say yes just to people-please???"

also I've never been on a date or dated anyone my whole life 👍

WHAT SHOULD I DO TOMORROW?!?!?!? is this normal???? pls give me advice peeps sad(((
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Date: 13-09-2024 22:27 | Times changed: 1
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kruspersille wrote:
if u enjoy chatting w her i dont see any harm in meeting up
if the vibes not there during the date then u just dont meet up again n thats fine
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Date: 13-09-2024 22:34
Elisia
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Elisia wrote:
theres no harm in going on a date just to see what happens and if you click irl?

and in my experience yes its normal, but everyone's experiences are diffferent so idk
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Date: 13-09-2024 22:39
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toraix wrote:
i met my 4 year current fiancee by going on dates even though i wasn't that into them, romance can definetly bloom after some time together, and if you're okay with it, whats the harm. heartbreak is part of life if you guys don't end up working out or you could get a long time friend or partner who knows
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Date: 13-09-2024 23:32
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Bum wrote:
it doesn't hurt to go, just remember if ever you feel uncomfortable you always have the option to leave!! 
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Date: 14-09-2024 00:31
88x
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88x wrote:
thank you yall sm!!! i feel normal now 😭
in my head even a date was a huge commitment, like you had already decided you would date this person
ILL BE SURE TO UPDATE YOU GUYS OF HOW EVERYTHING WENT
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Date: 14-09-2024 02:54
Fujiwara
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fujiwara wrote:
good luck :3 
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Date: 14-09-2024 04:01
88x
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88x wrote:
OK GUYS the update has been long overdue but I have been LONG OVERWHELMED!!!!!!!!!!!

the date went fine, she was nice, but it definitely felt like I was just hanging out with a friend

and after our date she sent me the sort of messages you send someone you're kinda liking romantically? :'( like "I thought you were so pretty and you smelled so good, I cant wait to see you again"

and that is just not the vibe I wanna partake in!!!! I think I'm gonna let her down slowly as we talk bc I think its also too soon to assume "YEAH YOU ARE IN LOVE WITH ME, I DONT WANT THAT", so if she makes any more advances I'm gonna tell her we're better off just as friends sad

THATS IT YALL!!!! but it definitely made me less scared to go on other dates!!!!!!!! :) and now I know that meeting new people isn't all that terrible!!! but it does take a lot of energy D:

thank you to everyone who shared their insights, experiences and support eheh <3
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Date: 19-09-2024 02:17
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