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finally starting therapy
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bexxi wrote:
next friday!! finally got in after 1 and a half year of waiting

i moved city in nov 2023 and asked to be put on the wait list even before i moved but sadly they wanted to have 1 in person interview before actually putting me on the list

the psycholgist sounded very nice on the phone lets hope i vibe with her. i really liked my pervious one and was actually really sad when i moved and had to stop going to  her
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Date: 28-03-2025 19:33
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devilcake wrote:
aaa awesome!! good luck i hope you end up vibing with the therapist :3
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Date: 28-03-2025 19:54
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bexxi wrote:
devilcake wrote:
aaa awesome!! good luck i hope you end up vibing with the therapist :3
its always a gamble rip
im glad i got a female therapist lol my first one was male and back then i was like "oh no this doesnt bother me" but i realized later that it does in fact inhibit me 
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Date: 28-03-2025 19:56
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devilcake wrote:
bexxi wrote:
devilcake wrote:
aaa awesome!! good luck i hope you end up vibing with the therapist :3
its always a gamble rip
im glad i got a female therapist lol my first one was male and back then i was like "oh no this doesnt bother me" but i realized later that it does in fact inhibit me 
that is fair i think im similar in that im only comfy with queer therapists tbh
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Date: 28-03-2025 20:05
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bexxi wrote:
devilcake wrote:
bexxi wrote:
devilcake wrote:
aaa awesome!! good luck i hope you end up vibing with the therapist :3
its always a gamble rip
im glad i got a female therapist lol my first one was male and back then i was like "oh no this doesnt bother me" but i realized later that it does in fact inhibit me 
that is fair i think im similar in that im only comfy with queer therapists tbh
ive had so much in common with my previous one LOL like totally by accident found the one person i needed to overcome my grief

we both lost our dads while studying n as a response just took on more coursework than u are supposed to do at once to keep urself busy and not think abt being sad 
meanwhile my previous psychologist (the Man) was so useless when i asked for some grief related sessions like he aid i should make a lil info card of my dad like what was his fav color and food. n then never mentioned grief again like that healed me 
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Date: 28-03-2025 20:09
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devilcake wrote:
bexxi wrote:
devilcake wrote:
bexxi wrote:
its always a gamble rip
im glad i got a female therapist lol my first one was male and back then i was like "oh no this doesnt bother me" but i realized later that it does in fact inhibit me 
that is fair i think im similar in that im only comfy with queer therapists tbh
ive had so much in common with my previous one LOL like totally by accident found the one person i needed to overcome my grief

we both lost our dads while studying n as a response just took on more coursework than u are supposed to do at once to keep urself busy and not think abt being sad 
meanwhile my previous psychologist (the Man) was so useless when i asked for some grief related sessions like he aid i should make a lil info card of my dad like what was his fav color and food. n then never mentioned grief again like that healed me 
HELPPP the man just seem like a shit therapist in general but the otherone seems rly nice, i think to a degree its very important to have some degree of relatability between patient n therapist, n like most men who have gone through higher educationm just dont go thru the same shit that have people end up in therapy
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Date: 28-03-2025 20:17
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asboy2035 wrote:
really happy for you! I hope it goes well :)
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Date: 28-03-2025 20:19
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bexxi wrote:
devilcake wrote:
bexxi wrote:
devilcake wrote:
that is fair i think im similar in that im only comfy with queer therapists tbh
ive had so much in common with my previous one LOL like totally by accident found the one person i needed to overcome my grief

we both lost our dads while studying n as a response just took on more coursework than u are supposed to do at once to keep urself busy and not think abt being sad 
meanwhile my previous psychologist (the Man) was so useless when i asked for some grief related sessions like he aid i should make a lil info card of my dad like what was his fav color and food. n then never mentioned grief again like that healed me 
HELPPP the man just seem like a shit therapist in general but the otherone seems rly nice, i think to a degree its very important to have some degree of relatability between patient n therapist, n like most men who have gone through higher educationm just dont go thru the same shit that have people end up in therapy
the man was like. from a rich family and he fast tracked his education without a hitch. like he had a (science) dr title  at age 29 ??? started uni right at 18 and stuff
like i feel like he couldnt relate to sturggling with uni or just in general with life because he had a great relationship with his (also a psychologist and a dr) dad and his mom. 

how can u relate to ppl when u had the perfect life !! go experience some misery for once 
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bexxi wrote:
also he was the singer + guitarist of a punk rock band and they were BAD im sorry 
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Date: 28-03-2025 20:22
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devilcake wrote:
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also he was the singer + guitarist of a punk rock band and they were BAD im sorry 
help pubnk rocker with that packground... the definition of a poser....
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Date: 28-03-2025 20:38
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bexxi wrote:
devilcake wrote:
bexxi wrote:
also he was the singer + guitarist of a punk rock band and they were BAD im sorry 
help pubnk rocker with that packground... the definition of a poser....
he was also vegan and loved to talk abt it 
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Date: 28-03-2025 20:40
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bexxi wrote:
asboy2035 wrote:
really happy for you! I hope it goes well
oh didnt see this. thank you! i hope so as well 
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Date: 28-03-2025 20:40
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devilcake wrote:
bexxi wrote:
devilcake wrote:
bexxi wrote:
also he was the singer + guitarist of a punk rock band and they were BAD im sorry 
help pubnk rocker with that packground... the definition of a poser....
he was also vegan and loved to talk abt it 
during ur therapy????
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Date: 28-03-2025 20:40
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bexxi wrote:
devilcake wrote:
bexxi wrote:
devilcake wrote:
help pubnk rocker with that packground... the definition of a poser....
he was also vegan and loved to talk abt it 
during ur therapy????
yeah lmao i guess i didnt give him enough to work with so he talked abt himself 

i guess that can be a valid strategy to make ur patient feel more connected to u and open up but all the things he told me abt just mad eme think he was the weird one and he wouldnt understand my problems 
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Date: 28-03-2025 20:45
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Sera wrote:
i'm so happy for you!!! i'd also love to get therapy but can't afford it : ( 
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Date: 28-03-2025 21:01
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Sera wrote:
bexxi wrote:
devilcake wrote:
aaa awesome!! good luck i hope you end up vibing with the therapist :3
its always a gamble rip
im glad i got a female therapist lol my first one was male and back then i was like "oh no this doesnt bother me" but i realized later that it does in fact inhibit me 
yeeeaahhhh male therapists idk i just don't trust them lol
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Date: 28-03-2025 21:01
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