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LexiLuvsKirby
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LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
That I've only ever been with one guy?
People sometimes ask if I feel like I missed out by not saying other guys before "settling" but I don't feel like I settled for my husband. I feel like he's  my other half and I got lucky on the first try... I mean I was desperate to be with someone and I definitely wouldn't be able to find someone else but who cares lmao. I love him and he loves me so I don't get why people are surprised
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Date: 20-05-2025 10:51
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Maxwell wrote:
Nah
My dad has also only been w my mom, got together when he was 18 nd still goin strong. U just got lucky on ur first shot!
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Date: 20-05-2025 11:07
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Chat0yant wrote:
LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
That I've only ever been with one guy?
People sometimes ask if I feel like I missed out by not saying other guys before "settling" but I don't feel like I settled for my husband. I feel like he's  my other half and I got lucky on the first try... I mean I was desperate to be with someone and I definitely wouldn't be able to find someone else but who cares lmao. I love him and he loves me so I don't get why people are surprised
i feel like the answer is more of:
is it weird to the "normal society" standards? yes
should it be weird? no

there's nothing wrong with it. i think it says more about society the pressure that you have to do and try everything and never or rarely commit on anything because fomo is so ingrained nowadays that everyone is so obsessed with finding "perfect" they rarely end up finding much at all for fear on losing on everything else that is ever possible. 

also who the frick cares about normal, the illusion of normal doesn't deserve your time or stress

ty for coming to my ted talk i shall kick myself out now 
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Date: 20-05-2025 11:10
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Miguel wrote:
i think its more weird that people care so much about whether you had one partner, twenty or zero partners
you do you, as long as you're happy in your relationship and as long as they make you happy as well, everythings fine
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Date: 20-05-2025 11:14
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Hauru wrote:
Chat0yant wrote:
LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
That I've only ever been with one guy?
People sometimes ask if I feel like I missed out by not saying other guys before "settling" but I don't feel like I settled for my husband. I feel like he's  my other half and I got lucky on the first try... I mean I was desperate to be with someone and I definitely wouldn't be able to find someone else but who cares lmao. I love him and he loves me so I don't get why people are surprised
i feel like the answer is more of:
is it weird to the "normal society" standards? yes
should it be weird? no

there's nothing wrong with it. i think it says more about society the pressure that you have to do and try everything and never or rarely commit on anything because fomo is so ingrained nowadays that everyone is so obsessed with finding "perfect" they rarely end up finding much at all for fear on losing on everything else that is ever possible. 

also who the frick cares about normal, the illusion of normal doesn't deserve your time or stress

ty for coming to my ted talk i shall kick myself out now 
depends on where youre from i dont think ive ever heard anyone around me shaming someone for only having one boyfriend and settling i didnt even know this was a thing
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Date: 20-05-2025 11:31
Chat0yant
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Chat0yant wrote:
Hauru wrote:
Chat0yant wrote:
LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
That I've only ever been with one guy?
People sometimes ask if I feel like I missed out by not saying other guys before "settling" but I don't feel like I settled for my husband. I feel like he's  my other half and I got lucky on the first try... I mean I was desperate to be with someone and I definitely wouldn't be able to find someone else but who cares lmao. I love him and he loves me so I don't get why people are surprised
i feel like the answer is more of:
is it weird to the "normal society" standards? yes
should it be weird? no

there's nothing wrong with it. i think it says more about society the pressure that you have to do and try everything and never or rarely commit on anything because fomo is so ingrained nowadays that everyone is so obsessed with finding "perfect" they rarely end up finding much at all for fear on losing on everything else that is ever possible. 

also who the frick cares about normal, the illusion of normal doesn't deserve your time or stress

ty for coming to my ted talk i shall kick myself out now 
depends on where youre from i dont think ive ever heard anyone around me shaming someone for only having one boyfriend and settling i didnt even know this was a thing
fair enough, that's another reason "normal" is such a terrible goal. It's subjective: it changes with the group, location, decade, setting, specific individual, etc. etc.

(no, i didn't leave, i like deep convo) 
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Date: 20-05-2025 11:34
LexiLuvsKirby
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LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
Chat0yant wrote:
LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
That I've only ever been with one guy?
People sometimes ask if I feel like I missed out by not saying other guys before "settling" but I don't feel like I settled for my husband. I feel like he's  my other half and I got lucky on the first try... I mean I was desperate to be with someone and I definitely wouldn't be able to find someone else but who cares lmao. I love him and he loves me so I don't get why people are surprised
i feel like the answer is more of:
is it weird to the "normal society" standards? yes
should it be weird? no

there's nothing wrong with it. i think it says more about society the pressure that you have to do and try everything and never or rarely commit on anything because fomo is so ingrained nowadays that everyone is so obsessed with finding "perfect" they rarely end up finding much at all for fear on losing on everything else that is ever possible. 

also who the frick cares about normal, the illusion of normal doesn't deserve your time or stress

ty for coming to my ted talk i shall kick myself out now 
I really like this 
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Date: 20-05-2025 12:28
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Clavicle wrote:
My fiance is my first and I didnt meet him til I was 27. I was never a casual dating person so to me it just makes sense to feel I got it right the first time. I couldn't have asked for a better first bf :) 
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Date: 20-05-2025 12:38
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Meowmere wrote:
as a demisexual.. yeah this is normal ^^
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Date: 20-05-2025 12:39
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