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LexiLuvsKirby
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LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
I know you only don't like me because I talk too much about myself and hating myself and stuff
But I honestly can't help it half the time like it's like Ocd

I'm diagnosed with body dysmorphia and depression idk how not to hate myself to the point of wanting to die im sorry I'm annoying
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Date: 14-07-2025 04:34
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Chat0yant wrote:


it's a process and one i think a lot of people struggle with. at least you're not alone in the struggle 
I don't think we all (at least, i don't) dislike you for that! even if it (the habit, not you) can be annoying that doesn't make you not a valuable and interesting individual! I just want to encourage u to find help if u can for that (it's ok to not know and need help) because you deserve to live not hating yourself 24/7
Wish i had real answers and could help 
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Date: 14-07-2025 06:19
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LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
Chat0yant wrote:


it's a process and one i think a lot of people struggle with. at least you're not alone in the struggle 
I don't think we all (at least, i don't) dislike you for that! even if it (the habit, not you) can be annoying that doesn't make you not a valuable and interesting individual! I just want to encourage u to find help if u can for that (it's ok to not know and need help) because you deserve to live not hating yourself 24/7
Wish i had real answers and could help 
There's the thing, I can't get myself to believe I deserve anything better
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Date: 14-07-2025 12:02
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devilcake wrote:
I think a lot of if not all people on vp rn struggles with similar things or have in the past, but we’re sort of all in different stages of recovery/acceptance and all have different ways of dealing with it, which I think often end up with frustration when trying to support someone who isn’t receptive to it. And that in turn is obviously not going to feel good to receive. It’s been said before by many people but no one here actively hates you but I still think thatch’s something you will have to work on yourself to actually believe, nothing we say will change how you see that.

what I do wonder and think would be good for all of us to know (and this is a very /gen /srs question) is what would be the best way for everyone to handle those threads. (Like specifically the self deprecating ones, the regular ones are obviously just regular threads n I personally enjoy those that you make!). Like do you think it’s better for people to ignore them? Do you need encouragement that you are liked/pretty/etc even if you will disagree? Like not just what you want to hear, I’m wondering what you think will help you progress/ minimize further harm the best? Do you have tactics you’ve learnt in therapy for how people should handle it that you could share with us?
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Date: 14-07-2025 14:10
Chat0yant
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Chat0yant wrote:
devilcake wrote:
I think a lot of if not all people on vp rn struggles with similar things or have in the past, but we’re sort of all in different stages of recovery/acceptance and all have different ways of dealing with it, which I think often end up with frustration when trying to support someone who isn’t receptive to it. And that in turn is obviously not going to feel good to receive. It’s been said before by many people but no one here actively hates you but I still think thatch’s something you will have to work on yourself to actually believe, nothing we say will change how you see that.

what I do wonder and think would be good for all of us to know (and this is a very /gen /srs question) is what would be the best way for everyone to handle those threads. (Like specifically the self deprecating ones, the regular ones are obviously just regular threads n I personally enjoy those that you make!). Like do you think it’s better for people to ignore them? Do you need encouragement that you are liked/pretty/etc even if you will disagree? Like not just what you want to hear, I’m wondering what you think will help you progress/ minimize further harm the best? Do you have tactics you’ve learnt in therapy for how people should handle it that you could share with us?
Yes absolutely!! if you have any advice for ways to encourage that people do that make you feel better than others, i def want to know and try and learn and do better 
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Date: 15-07-2025 04:04
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