Olympus wrote:meilin wrote:Olympus wrote:
Today I shared a very exciting development with the sibling group chat and my brother almost immediately starting downplaying it
and i ignored his first message that sounded kinda shady because he is just kinda like that, but then the second time i was like ??? alright, what is going on here ???
wait he was shady twice?? jeez, it's not that hard to just be happy for someone a bit, even if he has his own issues
anyway, congrats!! i'm sure it took a lot to get to the exciting development and you 100% deserve nice things like that <333
i'm used to it because he's always like that, but he actually does display being able to be happy for everyone else, for me he just dissects everything till he finds something wrong (which is what he did after giving a weird congratulations)
Yes, thank you!! I think when i'm further with it i will feel safe to share!
that sounds mentally taxing, but i'm glad you're able to recognize that him acting like this has nothing to do with you or what you're capable of. probably a good instinct to ignore his messages