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Hauru wrote:
its actually so stupid but i met someone on fortnite a few months ago and we got along well i really liked their personality and they were sooooo charming and extroverted but they were somewhat of a "player" and they make friends very easily.
Anyways long story short we played almost every day for weeks and they would always invite me to play even ask me on my insta to play and stuff but there was a week where i was feeling down and almost didnt talk and then i stopped playing for a week or so.
They dont invite me anymore AT ALL they ignore my invites and when i ask on insta to play (WHICH I NEVER DO) they reject me and say they are busy and are only gonna play late. Now the thing is i usually wouldnt care AT ALL bcs thats so not me and they might have things going on but its actually bothering me so bad that they just did that and i dont wanna ask them if i did something wrong bcs i cant imagine i did and i might misunderstand the situation.
Its probably not that deep for them at all and they might just have found others to play with but ive been overthinking so much and it has been on my mind for days. I cant play fortnite without getting mad that they dont even ask to play anymore!!! and i have 2 mutal friends that that person knows and they write super kind messages to them and asks to play and im actually mad bcs i dont know what i did wrong or if there even is something to be mad about bcs maybe i misunderstood the realtionship bcs maybe it didnt went well at all and they just played with me bcs they didnt have anything better to do idk but its making me mad and i just cannot bring myself to ask them i dont know what to dooo bcs i really liked them!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Also context: I have a hard time making friends online because i need facial expressions to understand people more clearly and if i cant see them i cant always tell what they feel or might mean. In real life i dont have any issues at all but It takes a while for me to get used to someone online so i choose the people i want to be around with very carefully and get attached easily.
its actually so stupid but i met someone on fortnite a few months ago and we got along well i really liked their personality and they were sooooo charming and extroverted but they were somewhat of a "player" and they make friends very easily.
Anyways long story short we played almost every day for weeks and they would always invite me to play even ask me on my insta to play and stuff but there was a week where i was feeling down and almost didnt talk and then i stopped playing for a week or so.
They dont invite me anymore AT ALL they ignore my invites and when i ask on insta to play (WHICH I NEVER DO) they reject me and say they are busy and are only gonna play late. Now the thing is i usually wouldnt care AT ALL bcs thats so not me and they might have things going on but its actually bothering me so bad that they just did that and i dont wanna ask them if i did something wrong bcs i cant imagine i did and i might misunderstand the situation.
Its probably not that deep for them at all and they might just have found others to play with but ive been overthinking so much and it has been on my mind for days. I cant play fortnite without getting mad that they dont even ask to play anymore!!! and i have 2 mutal friends that that person knows and they write super kind messages to them and asks to play and im actually mad bcs i dont know what i did wrong or if there even is something to be mad about bcs maybe i misunderstood the realtionship bcs maybe it didnt went well at all and they just played with me bcs they didnt have anything better to do idk but its making me mad and i just cannot bring myself to ask them i dont know what to dooo bcs i really liked them!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Also context: I have a hard time making friends online because i need facial expressions to understand people more clearly and if i cant see them i cant always tell what they feel or might mean. In real life i dont have any issues at all but It takes a while for me to get used to someone online so i choose the people i want to be around with very carefully and get attached easily.
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