Aske wrote:
incompatible moral values, not respecting boundaries and stuff like that obv but also using ai, doing stock trading and like. not being interested in the world around you idk. having a dog im sorry im horrible for this but i cant do it genuinely
i mean it kinda depends right, did i notice something bad i had been blind to before or did they actually rapidly change? because that id find super concerning and worry for their health and mental well being before anything else i think
ive experienced suddenly seeing someones 'true colours' with family and friends before, and it really depends on the person and how close we are honestly. the friendship i dropped instantly as if it was radioactive waste, but with my family memebr i cant do it regardless of how mortified i am because i know the huge capacity she has for love and compassion, there has to be a way to reach beyond the brainwash and open her heart to everyone she has shut out of it idk. thats slightly off topic i guess, but id imagine that on a scale a partner would fall somewhere in the middle of those two? like id try to reach them, but not forever, if theyre determined to be someone i cant love then so be it. thats very hypothetical tho ive never been in love with someone