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Dealbreakers
Chello
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What do you think would be dealbreakers in a relationship?
If your long-term partner suddenly changed into something you disliked, would that also be a dealbreaker?
Solar
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before dating someone a dealbreaker for me would be; right-wing, or very conservative/traditional, someone with unassuming hobbies (i hope this doesn't sound mean lol) but i have weird hobbies so if im with someone super normal i would feel very uncomfortable 

long-term partner suddenly changing would complicate things i think bc im pretty loyal but if it becomes too much i would break up w them ,.. like if someone suddenly becomes racist or sexist or homophobic i wouldnt stay lMAO but if it was something smaller i might learn to deal with it...
Solar
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what about u chello? 
Private
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Aside from the obviousnlike suddenly turning out to be a right winger or abuser or whatevah my current main deal breaker if I were to meet someone now that’s like insta nah this ain’t going further is having like no sense of personal style cos it signals to me they’re boring and have no sense of identity n that’s a worse crime than having a bad sense of style fr

ao ig translated to a long term relationship ig if they suddenly decided to become a normie or smth 🤧
Private
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ive found out it's romance apparently 
Private
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Suchomimus wrote:
ive found out it's romance apparently 
Would you have any deal breakers in a queer platonic relationship or do you also think you wouldn’t do a qpr
Bloodflowers
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If she hates Sleep Token that would not work out
Aske
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incompatible moral values, not respecting boundaries and stuff like that obv but also using ai, doing stock trading and like. not being interested in the world around you idk. having a dog im sorry im horrible for this but i cant do it genuinely 

i mean it kinda depends right, did i notice something bad i had been blind to before or did they actually rapidly change? because that id find super concerning and worry for their health and mental well being before anything else i think
ive experienced suddenly seeing someones 'true colours' with family and friends before, and it really depends on the person and how close we are honestly. the friendship i dropped instantly as if it was radioactive waste, but with my family memebr i cant do it regardless of how mortified i am because i know the huge capacity she has for love and compassion, there has to be a way to reach beyond the brainwash and open her heart to everyone she has shut out of it idk. thats slightly off topic i guess, but  id imagine that on a scale a partner would fall somewhere in the middle of those two? like id try to reach them, but not forever, if theyre determined to be someone i cant love then so be it. thats very hypothetical tho ive never been in love with someone 
Obliviate
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If they're masking their personality, feelings, opinions etc
Hiding their past, like debt or crime
Being rude to people without a reason
Being far right or far left politically
Using drugs/abusing alcohol
Not liking dogs
Being religious

I would eventually break it off if someone I have been in a relationship with would change rapidly over night and it can't be explained medically
Meister
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One big thing for me is that they cant handle money.
I dont care if you have a job that gives you 35k each month or getting help from the government if you cant work. But if you spend it on fun stuff and dont pay bills, rents and so on and the person starts to lie, ask for money to pay for things and then buys other things.
Or if you use the money to gamble and so on.
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