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Azriel wrote:
ok so basically, i am moving out mid september, like 3-4 days after my thesis deadline. i have three more weeks . im very stressed. and i have two roommates, roommate A and roommate B, and i need to find someone to take over my room ofc!

roommate A is moving abroad for half a year and subletting her room to someone, i havent even met her and i dont think B did either? not sure tbh but it was no big deal

then roommate A came up to me and was like hey i have an old friend who is looking for a room. i was like great then i dont have to post it on fb and go through all that shit bc i honestly dont rly have the energy for all that

the friend came and she was kind and seems clean and sociable and i was like alright ! but then roommate B was like mmm i wanna meet other people . didnt like her enough bc "she didnt ask any questions" (which was bc roommate A had already explained everything to her in polish when they were talking before)

and i did end up making the fb post reluctantly bc i wanna be a good roommate but now B wants to meet like 5 different people to see who fits best blablabla even though she knows the situation i am in

and ok yk i get it bc its basic roommate courtesy to find someone everyone likes but thing is B is never home !!!! she is gone from 8 am to 10 pm and mostly just cares about that its a girl and theyre clean. so i dont understand why she desperately needs to meet 5 different people bc she isnt gonna be besties with them anyway !!!!!!! and roommate A is home a lot (when she is back at least) and she ltl has a friend that wants to live with her but B is being so annoying abt it !!!!! and its gonna be so annoying to plan phonecalls with potential new people and stuff bc A is gonna be in CHINA and B never has time !!! 

so ok I just wanna know like is my annoyance justified

bc i know i shouldve done this like weeks ago probably but like ......... 
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Teabag wrote:
no you are not the asshole-

your role is to find someone to replace you thats it, if the roommate(s) want someone specific to live there it is THEir responsibility to find someone 
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Azriel wrote:
Teabag wrote:
no you are not the asshole-

your role is to find someone to replace you thats it, if the roommate(s) want someone specific to live there it is THEir responsibility to find someone 
I mean i made a nice little document with everyone who reached out (or well more like the first 20 or so) and i feel like it kinda depends per household but isnt it expected to find someone they actually like
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Date: 26-08-2026 23:15
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Azriel wrote:
Id be way more okay with finding someone and inviting people if she would actually be home and spend time with her roommates but roommate A and i hang out all the fucking time and shes either not home or just locked in her room like idk why she is being so picky about it when the person just needs to be female and clean
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Date: 26-08-2026 23:17
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Azriel wrote:
If someone is nice and clean then why not just say yes ???? Its not gonna impact u anyway !!!!
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Teabag wrote:
Azriel wrote:
Teabag wrote:
no you are not the asshole-

your role is to find someone to replace you thats it, if the roommate(s) want someone specific to live there it is THEir responsibility to find someone 
I mean i made a nice little document with everyone who reached out (or well more like the first 20 or so) and i feel like it kinda depends per household but isnt it expected to find someone they actually like
unless the person has major serial killer vibes i personally don't think it is on YOU to find someone THEY like, most cases i've seen from other friends that had roomates moving out, the person still living there was the one who got in contact w people while the person moving just helped sharing/posting abt the room


in my case i had roomates but it was strictly the landlord who made all decisions, it was a surprise who would be staying w them next
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Teabag wrote:
Azriel wrote:
If someone is nice and clean then why not just say yes ???? Its not gonna impact u anyway !!!!
^^^this
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hmm wrote:
you are not the asshole ! if there's a candidate why would you keep bothering with finding a roommate. it should be B's problem
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Azriel wrote:
Its also gonna be nearly impossible to arrange viewings bc B is gone all day and only has time late in the evening and A is 6 hours ahead !!!!! Screaming crying throwing myself off christiansborg fr
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Teabag wrote:
Azriel wrote:
Its also gonna be nearly impossible to arrange viewings bc B is gone all day and only has time late in the evening and A is 6 hours ahead !!!!! Screaming crying throwing myself off christiansborg fr
yeah just contact A's friend see if they're still interested- you cannot please both your roomies when it isn't your problem
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Date: 27-08-2026 00:30
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Teabag wrote:
if B want someone else, then it's B's problem to solve themselves
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Azriel wrote:
Teabag wrote:
Azriel wrote:
Its also gonna be nearly impossible to arrange viewings bc B is gone all day and only has time late in the evening and A is 6 hours ahead !!!!! Screaming crying throwing myself off christiansborg fr
yeah just contact A's friend see if they're still interested- you cannot please both your roomies when it isn't your problem
yk i was thinking i could theoretically do that but im still living with B for like 3 more weeks and i dont want it to be incredibly uncomfortable
+ she would actually go off on me like she would NOT accept that
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Date: 27-08-2026 00:47
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Azriel wrote:
and i also cant shift the responsibility to her she will also just simply not accept that

i can give her the option of either u take care of it or i pick and she will simply say no you are gonna do this . 

and shes like 38 years old and intimidating i dont think i can handle it 
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Date: 27-08-2026 00:49
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Teabag wrote:
Azriel wrote:
and i also cant shift the responsibility to her she will also just simply not accept that

i can give her the option of either u take care of it or i pick and she will simply say no you are gonna do this . 

and shes like 38 years old and intimidating i dont think i can handle it 
what the actual fuckk
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Date: 27-08-2026 01:08
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Azriel wrote:
Teabag wrote:
Azriel wrote:
and i also cant shift the responsibility to her she will also just simply not accept that

i can give her the option of either u take care of it or i pick and she will simply say no you are gonna do this . 

and shes like 38 years old and intimidating i dont think i can handle it 
what the actual fuckk
yeah idk she doesnt live like an average 38yo like she finished her master degree last year and goes to raves idk wtf she has been up to the past 20 years
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elisia wrote:
nta
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