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a hangout? and if the first one how do i turn it into the last one bc im not over my ex yet?
basically the situation is as follows:
-met a guy at a hangout that consisted of me, him and another girl
-he was attentive towards me, ex. noticing that the big ceiling light bothered me so he turned on the smaller cozy lights instead (this is basic politeness imo)
-when the hangout ended, asked to walk me to the bus stop
-on the way there i asked how old he was bc i was curious. turned out im a year older than him and he said he doesnt care about ages
-when my bus came he told me to text him if i got safely back home
-i did and he asked if i had fun. i said yes and that it would be fun to do this again. he agreed and told me to let him know if im ever available and wed figure smth out. i said i would
-some days later he sends me an insta reel, i reply and he says it reminded him of me. i ask if hes busy next week. he says he is but he would make time for me
-after this the convos have just been about that. asking when im available, etc. no mention of the other girl
i feel unsure if ive accidentally sent signals or whatever, or if this is just 2 friends planning to meetup. stuff like walking me to the bus stop is polite, but it could also be about wanting to spend some extra time with me (the other girl had her car so she probably didnt need to be walked). and also like that he would make time for me idk i feel like with potential friends you would adjust the hangouts according to your schedule vs your schedule according to the potential new friends. idk. maybe im overthinking this
is this normal new friend stuff (im extremely undersocialized) or is he interested in me beyond being friends? i believe we are meeting 1 on 1 though while i didnt explicitly say it i originally meant meeting up as 3 again, but i dont have the girls number so
a hangout? and if the first one how do i turn it into the last one bc im not over my ex yet?
basically the situation is as follows:
-met a guy at a hangout that consisted of me, him and another girl
-he was attentive towards me, ex. noticing that the big ceiling light bothered me so he turned on the smaller cozy lights instead (this is basic politeness imo)
-when the hangout ended, asked to walk me to the bus stop
-on the way there i asked how old he was bc i was curious. turned out im a year older than him and he said he doesnt care about ages
-when my bus came he told me to text him if i got safely back home
-i did and he asked if i had fun. i said yes and that it would be fun to do this again. he agreed and told me to let him know if im ever available and wed figure smth out. i said i would
-some days later he sends me an insta reel, i reply and he says it reminded him of me. i ask if hes busy next week. he says he is but he would make time for me
-after this the convos have just been about that. asking when im available, etc. no mention of the other girl
i feel unsure if ive accidentally sent signals or whatever, or if this is just 2 friends planning to meetup. stuff like walking me to the bus stop is polite, but it could also be about wanting to spend some extra time with me (the other girl had her car so she probably didnt need to be walked). and also like that he would make time for me idk i feel like with potential friends you would adjust the hangouts according to your schedule vs your schedule according to the potential new friends. idk. maybe im overthinking this
is this normal new friend stuff (im extremely undersocialized) or is he interested in me beyond being friends? i believe we are meeting 1 on 1 though while i didnt explicitly say it i originally meant meeting up as 3 again, but i dont have the girls number so
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