MasileinDE wrote:Nesta wrote:MasileinDE wrote:
I'd probably just let her be if I were you
you don't have any responsibilities over her and it's ultimately her life and her choice
Our everday is like:
I make the majority of the food, clean the most, have to be organized. She gets angry when I don't make food for her too. She never asks me if I want fucking noodles when she puts on her chef hat and makes them, or fill a glass of soda for herself. She's like id rather starve than make food and I am in the situation of not having that dumb privilege and have to make food and it doesn't matter how I feel or hoe much my anxiety is up, she won't make food beyond the easiest shit if she have to. She doesn't even wanna drive to the store for food. SheI always say «you should bicycle and get it» instead. And I am like ?? This is not a me thing, i don't have money for all of thod and.. food is an us thing as we live together. Like GROW UP. UGGFYHH and then I am the one thqt have to get her to go w me to the store, always take that emotional toll of geting her to come, bc even my dad doesn't care that much. And suddenly, i have a kid my own age and a 60yo baby
does it have any other repercussions just cooking for you? I mean, except for her getting upset, but that's something you can try to ignore
tbh, feels like moving is the next step :/ I don't know if I could stay with a family like that and would probably do anything to move away
She will like yell at me and be angry lmao i don't take that well. I also make too much food all the time as I've never cooked for one so shell just eat it after i am done since i dont want to waste the food