intimate wrote:Raquelle wrote:
i have had serious trouble finding friends in uni i just started. I really tried my best, i went to all the parties and talked to people. And i’m not weird or annoying from what i know. i got some people to say hi in the hallway but i am completely left out of all the cliques and groups.
That’s fine, i’m fine without friends though it’s a bit lonely in a new town, but this situation is really harming my education too. We have an awful ton of group projects and to all of them we have to form out own groups. So, i asked through all the new people i know if they had a group already and if i could join. I got in in one group, for one course. Everyone else said sorry, full, for every other course. I’m so miserable and anxious and feel like such a loser.
One teacher mailed me and said that she will kick me out of the course if i didn’t have a group. So i had to explain to her this situation and she then added me to a group with four random girls i don’t know. At least i didn’t get kicked out. but i feel like a failure. I was so motivated and happy to study and now all i have is this anxiety because i’m such a fucking loser who can’t get a couple of friends.
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thats terrible!! i hope it gets better for you :[ remember that there’s nothing wrong w u and ur one of the kindest ppl i know!!
Thank you )= it does feel a bit hard right now