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Hennastii wrote:

Focalin wrote:
This has gone a bit off topic.

yup
would be better to get on the rails again and discuss about the point of the topic, the mental health topics and what we're gonna do with them

Ad0xa
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ad0xa wrote:

Claire wrote:

Focalin wrote:
This has gone a bit off topic.

i think it's circled back to the actual problem really.

mental health discussions on vp arent really the problem here. the problem is a handful of problematic users.

Yeah or... rather... how the mods deal with them I guess?

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also, i don’t mean for the things i say to come off as harsh, even though i know they are harsh. i just know so little of how the mod job actually works on vp - and im sure others feel the same way. it’d be nice if we saw or got information as to how you discuss matters such as tos, bans, perma bans, handling of threads and shouts, etc. like, through an article via the news team? or a video via the youtube team, where the different mods are interviewed

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Princess of Pop

Limited wrote:

Pusk wrote:

Limited wrote:

Pusk wrote:
Guys, don't you see this shit?

Ofcourse it is different, if one person is deliberately going after someone. That is Your job as that one person, to report everything that One person has said and done to you. I am sure, there'll be other rules.

But if a person tells you "kys" once in 6 months, that person don't give an honest fuck about you - as in, he or she has nothing against you.

The moderators is actually trying to fucking help, calm down por favor

It’s nice they want to help us, but they might start to listen to us as well, since most of us had and having problems and they seems like.. they don’t give a fuck (sorry my language) and that my friend, that is annoying af /: @Pusk

I am not sure what problems any of yall been into, but they have to know all sides to the story... but I feel you man

There have been these kind of problems since I started here. And that is 4-5 years. It’s horrible and I’m getting crazy in my head xD

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Limited wrote:

Hennastii wrote:

Limited wrote:
It’s nice they want to help us, but they might start to listen to us as well, since most of us had and having problems and they seems like.. they don’t give a fuck (sorry my language) and that my friend, that is annoying af /: @Pusk

we are listening but there are always limitations to what we can do to certain things and how fast

I have this feeling in my entire body, that none of you are really listening to us, even if you are trying to ):

If we didn't care we wouldnt make this thread. We are trying to help but we cant do it in one day and when people aren't willing to cooperate.

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Kaaos wrote:
I voted for the dedicated forum section, that definitely seems like the fairest option to me. It's important for people to be able to talk about their health here, including mental stuff, we have a lot of suffering people on this site and peer support is important.

Actually, would it be possible to make a general health section, including but not limited to, mental health?

I feel like the conversations only being allowed on one record label definitely would not be fair as that would force people to choose between that and, for example, their native country's label, which would be a shame since a lot of people can't use their native language on the regular forum either.

Also only having one thread for mental health stuff would increase the risk that whatever is on your mind would get drowned in the general discussion and might make a lot of people feel ignored which certainly doesn't help if you're already struggling.

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let me give you this feedback

next time people report someone over and over for bad behavior it SHOULDN'T take hmm, 4 years to fix a problem that could've been solved in a matter of days / weeks

if you can't understand what i'm telling, get NEW mods, thanks

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mjom wrote:

Claire wrote:

Focalin wrote:
This has gone a bit off topic.

i think it's circled back to the actual problem really.

mental health discussions on vp arent really the problem here. the problem is a handful of problematic users.

the mental health discussions ARE a problem if they're not done properly???? (like not putting a trigger warning in the title or going too much into detail)

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Queen of Queens

Hennastii wrote:

Limited wrote:

Hennastii wrote:

Limited wrote:
It’s nice they want to help us, but they might start to listen to us as well, since most of us had and having problems and they seems like.. they don’t give a fuck (sorry my language) and that my friend, that is annoying af /: @Pusk

we are listening but there are always limitations to what we can do to certain things and how fast

I have this feeling in my entire body, that none of you are really listening to us, even if you are trying to ):

i'm truly sorry if you or other users feel like we don't listen, that means that we have to try harder in the future
i wish we really could fix the problems by just pressing one button but the problems here are usually way more difficult to handle

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Cedence wrote:
dedicated forum section but don't make the posts pop to the frontpage. you have to click into that forum section to reach them.

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Rotte wrote:

Claire wrote:

Focalin wrote:
This has gone a bit off topic.

i think it's circled back to the actual problem really.

mental health discussions on vp arent really the problem here. the problem is a handful of problematic users.

I mean triggering topics in itself is a problem too tho.

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Limited wrote:

Pusk wrote:
Guys, don't you see this shit?

Ofcourse it is different, if one person is deliberately going after someone. That is Your job as that one person, to report everything that One person has said and done to you. I am sure, there'll be other rules.

But if a person tells you "kys" once in 6 months, that person don't give an honest fuck about you - as in, he or she has nothing against you.

The moderators is actually trying to fucking help, calm down por favor

It’s nice they want to help us, but they might start to listen to us as well, since most of us had and having problems and they seems like.. they don’t give a fuck (sorry my language) and that my friend, that is annoying af /: @Pusk

I just wanted to add that it seems that you (not you especially) are not listening to the mods when they say that things work a certain way. Clearly, things aren't working as it is now but change doesn't happen overnight and for how I've viewed vp lately it seems that changes actually may happen. They clearly are bound to their set of rules as well. I don't think they are all to blame for all. They are working with what they have and there are so many parts of VP that aren't functioning properly or have the right or enough resources to do the work that clearly is needed, that it's not uncalled for that it is affecting other parts of it.

Pusk
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Pusk wrote:

Limited wrote:

Hennastii wrote:

Limited wrote:
It’s nice they want to help us, but they might start to listen to us as well, since most of us had and having problems and they seems like.. they don’t give a fuck (sorry my language) and that my friend, that is annoying af /: @Pusk

we are listening but there are always limitations to what we can do to certain things and how fast

I have this feeling in my entire body, that none of you are really listening to us, even if you are trying to ):

What's up? They have to follow some sort of protocol, sweetie. They are trying their best, even though it doesn't seem like it. You know, like mothers telling their daughters to be home before 10pm.

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Princess of Pop

Limited wrote:

Photosynthesis wrote:

Limited wrote:

Hennastii wrote:
we are listening but there are always limitations to what we can do to certain things and how fast

I have this feeling in my entire body, that none of you are really listening to us, even if you are trying to ):

If we didn't care we wouldnt make this thread. We are trying to help but we cant do it in one day and when people aren't willing to cooperate.

It took you all years to create this threads and asked us for opinions about the 4-5 category you made in first page. So many years, it’s kinda .. meh tbh

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Princess of Pop

Limited wrote:

Pusk wrote:

Limited wrote:

Hennastii wrote:
we are listening but there are always limitations to what we can do to certain things and how fast

I have this feeling in my entire body, that none of you are really listening to us, even if you are trying to ):

What's up? They have to follow some sort of protocol, sweetie. They are trying their best, even though it doesn't seem like it. You know, like mothers telling their daughters to be home before 10pm.

I know, hehe. But still xD