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Claire wrote:
Macy wrote:
Claire wrote:
Focalin wrote:
This has gone a bit off topic.
i think it's circled back to the actual problem really.

mental health discussions on vp arent really the problem here. the problem is a handful of problematic users.
I mean triggering topics in itself is a problem too tho. 
right- but again it's the same people who make said topics over and over.
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Date: 18-11-2019 21:33
Pusk
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Pusk wrote:
Limited wrote:
Pusk wrote:
Limited wrote:
It’s nice they want to help us, but they might start to listen to us as well, since most of us had and having problems and they seems like.. they don’t give a fuck (sorry my language) and that my friend, that is annoying af /: @Pusk 
I am not sure what problems any of yall been into, but they have to know all sides to the story... but I feel you man
There have been these kind of problems since I started here. And that is 4-5 years. It’s horrible and I’m getting crazy in my head xD  
If it is bothering you so much, you should focus more on yourself. Facts :p You'll be alright sweetie
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wrote:
Limited wrote:
Photosynthesis wrote:
Limited wrote:
I have this feeling in my entire body, that none of you are really listening to us, even if you are trying to ): 
If we didn't care we wouldnt make this thread. We are trying to help but we cant do it in one day and when people aren't willing to cooperate.
It took you all years to create this threads and asked us for opinions about the 4-5 category you made in first page. So many years, it’s kinda .. meh tbh
I'm sorry we're late, but we're trying to change it. You can be against us all you want but we're just as much done with this as you are and we want change too
Date: 18-11-2019 21:33
Private
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legohouse wrote:
Limited wrote:
Photosynthesis wrote:
Limited wrote:
I have this feeling in my entire body, that none of you are really listening to us, even if you are trying to ): 
If we didn't care we wouldnt make this thread. We are trying to help but we cant do it in one day and when people aren't willing to cooperate.
It took you all years to create this threads and asked us for opinions about the 4-5 category you made in first page. So many years, it’s kinda .. meh tbh
Mental health hasn't been half as big of an issue as it's been in the past year
we've had people come and go but it's not been to this extent. It even depends on who the person is making the thread about their mental health on the responses they get and the backlash 
We've had this in the works for a few months but we decided before we did anything we would see what others wanted or other ideas 
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Date: 18-11-2019 21:33
Ad0xa
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ad0xa wrote:
mjom wrote:
Claire wrote:
Focalin wrote:
This has gone a bit off topic.
i think it's circled back to the actual problem really.

mental health discussions on vp arent really the problem here. the problem is a handful of problematic users.
the mental health discussions ARE a problem if they're not done properly???? (like not putting a trigger warning in the title or going too much into detail)
I feel like most people who actually are talking about mental health are doing a pretty good job of TW's and stuff. 
It's the Killing stuff that is toxic and just horrible... the "I wanna die" things. The "kys" thing. Anything with that kind of super big threat level. 
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Date: 18-11-2019 21:34
NixieFae
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NixieFae wrote:
I think a forum would be best, one thread could/might get to be too spamy, too long etc.
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Date: 18-11-2019 21:34
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Rotte wrote:
Claire wrote:
Macy wrote:
Claire wrote:
i think it's circled back to the actual problem really.

mental health discussions on vp arent really the problem here. the problem is a handful of problematic users.
I mean triggering topics in itself is a problem too tho. 
right- but again it's the same people who make said topics over and over.
Certain people dont do it to be problematic tho, some do it to have someone to talk to and get it out. And for that this is relevant
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Date: 18-11-2019 21:34
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wrote:
NixieFae wrote:
I think a forum would be best, one thread could/might get to be too spamy, too long etc.
i thought this as well. one thread would very easily get cluttered
Date: 18-11-2019 21:34
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mjom wrote:
Limited wrote:
Photosynthesis wrote:
Limited wrote:
I have this feeling in my entire body, that none of you are really listening to us, even if you are trying to ): 
If we didn't care we wouldnt make this thread. We are trying to help but we cant do it in one day and when people aren't willing to cooperate.
It took you all years to create this threads and asked us for opinions about the 4-5 category you made in first page. So many years, it’s kinda .. meh tbh
better now than never :/ instead of just focusing on the bad everyone here should focus on the fact that something will be done. bashing the mods isn't really helpful right now
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Date: 18-11-2019 21:35
Private
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Limited wrote:
legohouse wrote:
Limited wrote:
Photosynthesis wrote:
If we didn't care we wouldnt make this thread. We are trying to help but we cant do it in one day and when people aren't willing to cooperate.
It took you all years to create this threads and asked us for opinions about the 4-5 category you made in first page. So many years, it’s kinda .. meh tbh
Mental health hasn't been half as big of an issue as it's been in the past year
we've had people come and go but it's not been to this extent. It even depends on who the person is making the thread about their mental health on the responses they get and the backlash 
We've had this in the works for a few months but we decided before we did anything we would see what others wanted or other ideas 
I mean general problems. My bad that I didn’t wrote it more clear ^^ 
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Date: 18-11-2019 21:35
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Claire wrote:
Kaaos wrote:
I voted for the dedicated forum section, that definitely seems like the fairest option to me. It's important for people to be able to talk about their health here, including mental stuff, we have a lot of suffering people on this site and peer support is important.

Actually, would it be possible to make a general health section, including but not limited to, mental health?

I feel like the conversations only being allowed on one record label definitely would not be fair as that would force people to choose between that and, for example, their native country's label, which would be a shame since a lot of people can't use their native language on the regular forum either.

Also only having one thread for mental health stuff would increase the risk that whatever is on your mind would get drowned in the general discussion and might make a lot of people feel ignored which certainly doesn't help if you're already struggling.

this is a good idea

i don't like seeing the health posts on VP either lmao people asking VP about doctor shit scares me.
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Date: 18-11-2019 21:35
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Limited wrote:
mjom wrote:
Limited wrote:
Photosynthesis wrote:
If we didn't care we wouldnt make this thread. We are trying to help but we cant do it in one day and when people aren't willing to cooperate.
It took you all years to create this threads and asked us for opinions about the 4-5 category you made in first page. So many years, it’s kinda .. meh tbh
better now than never :/ instead of just focusing on the bad everyone here should focus on the fact that something will be done. bashing the mods isn't really helpful right now
True true, it also took them like 4-5 years, but yeah. 
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Date: 18-11-2019 21:35
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Limited wrote:
Claire wrote:
Kaaos wrote:
I voted for the dedicated forum section, that definitely seems like the fairest option to me. It's important for people to be able to talk about their health here, including mental stuff, we have a lot of suffering people on this site and peer support is important.

Actually, would it be possible to make a general health section, including but not limited to, mental health?

I feel like the conversations only being allowed on one record label definitely would not be fair as that would force people to choose between that and, for example, their native country's label, which would be a shame since a lot of people can't use their native language on the regular forum either.

Also only having one thread for mental health stuff would increase the risk that whatever is on your mind would get drowned in the general discussion and might make a lot of people feel ignored which certainly doesn't help if you're already struggling.

this is a good idea

i don't like seeing the health posts on VP either lmao people asking VP about doctor shit scares me.
I got confused by seeing my own name. I need to change it 
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Date: 18-11-2019 21:36
NixieFae
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NixieFae wrote:
Josten wrote:
NixieFae wrote:
I think a forum would be best, one thread could/might get to be too spamy, too long etc.
i thought this as well. one thread would very easily get cluttered
An ntm it could get off topic as well.
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Date: 18-11-2019 21:36
Parasite
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Parasite wrote:
Claire wrote:
Focalin wrote:
This has gone a bit off topic.
i think it's circled back to the actual problem really.

mental health discussions on vp arent really the problem here. the problem is a handful of problematic users.
I'm not denying that there are other issues, but I still can't see how it's even related to the topic at hand. 
Especially the way some people are handling it.
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