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vig wrote:
I voted for a forum
But it would be nice to regulate the responses.
Some people fake it (like in the past some cruel users would pretend to be mentally unstable which is unfair to those who are looking for help)
And some who KNOW they need help, but continue to seek responses from a forum community without the need to seek clear medical attention
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Date: 18-11-2019 20:38
Ad0xa
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ad0xa wrote:
I think it's good for people to talk about mental health.

But I think we should just ban the phrase " I wanna kill myself" or talking about ways to do it ect.

All of those can go wherever. 

But the subject "mental health" is a VERY broad thing.... will that mean you would block threads about self help or someone making a thread about being sad? 
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Date: 18-11-2019 20:39
Ad0xa
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ad0xa wrote:
Like I'm actually feeling a slight feeling of panic bc I can just imagine how weirdly this rule would be enforced XD 
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Date: 18-11-2019 20:40
DandelionMarie
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DandelionMarie wrote:
Hennastii wrote:
DandelionMarie wrote:
Gonna try to make this short:

I dont think taking away the chance to talk about mental health is the way, many of the people are on here because they have mental health problems. 

I do think that they're should be a own "mental health" team who could watch out over the threads and talk about mental health in a healthy way!

The problem on vp is that sometimes people talk about mental health in a unhealthy way, but that dosen´t mean we should stop talking about it. People need to be educated in how to speak about mental health in a healthy way!

For me personally it would affect me if you "banned" talking about mental health because I have a mental health series on my blog, which I think is good for the community. By taking away mental health topics you don't just take away the triggering but also the ones spreading awareness 
we're not banning mental health as a topic, we're asking you whether we should continue like we're currently doing or whether we should change the system in some way

as mental health is an important topic to talk about
no but I just want you to understand that making a big chance about mental health need to be very well though tru 

So if I were to vote on the choices it would be 3, own section
Or make a mental health team who can watch over the forums. to be specific
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Date: 18-11-2019 20:40
DandelionMarie
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DandelionMarie wrote:
ad0xa wrote:
I think it's good for people to talk about mental health.

But I think we should just ban the phrase " I wanna kill myself" or talking about ways to do it ect.

All of those can go wherever. 

But the subject "mental health" is a VERY broad thing.... will that mean you would block threads about self help or someone making a thread about being sad? 
exacly! agree
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Date: 18-11-2019 20:41
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Limited wrote:
ad0xa wrote:
I think it's good for people to talk about mental health.

But I think we should just ban the phrase " I wanna kill myself" or talking about ways to do it ect.

All of those can go wherever. 

But the subject "mental health" is a VERY broad thing.... will that mean you would block threads about self help or someone making a thread about being sad? 
Ah yeah true, it’s so trigging to get that text ): and none of us know if the person (who get the text) are feeling bad and actually doing it and then will the title be breaking news, vp is a killer site who is telling people to kill yourself  .-.
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Date: 18-11-2019 20:42
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Chlorine wrote:
DandelionMarie wrote:
Hennastii wrote:
DandelionMarie wrote:
Gonna try to make this short:

I dont think taking away the chance to talk about mental health is the way, many of the people are on here because they have mental health problems. 

I do think that they're should be a own "mental health" team who could watch out over the threads and talk about mental health in a healthy way!

The problem on vp is that sometimes people talk about mental health in a unhealthy way, but that dosen´t mean we should stop talking about it. People need to be educated in how to speak about mental health in a healthy way!

For me personally it would affect me if you "banned" talking about mental health because I have a mental health series on my blog, which I think is good for the community. By taking away mental health topics you don't just take away the triggering but also the ones spreading awareness 
we're not banning mental health as a topic, we're asking you whether we should continue like we're currently doing or whether we should change the system in some way

as mental health is an important topic to talk about
no but I just want you to understand that making a big chance about mental health need to be very well though tru 

So if I were to vote on the choices it would be 3, own section
Or make a mental health team who can watch over the forums. to be specific

if there is going to be a mental health team, please hire some people with an eduction and license to help because the people here can pretend all they want, and say they have experience -but it ain't worth shit 
sorry not sorry
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Date: 18-11-2019 20:42
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Rotte wrote:
For me mental health forums and rants isnt much the problem, but i feel like when it comes to really sensitive topics like cutting and sexual violations and such, that maybe a label would be nice.. I respect that we are open about mental health, but those are really sensitive and triggering topics. In the end this is a teens girl site and i think those topics can be a bit to overwhelming for the free forum.
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Date: 18-11-2019 20:43
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wrote:
ad0xa wrote:
I think it's good for people to talk about mental health.

But I think we should just ban the phrase " I wanna kill myself" or talking about ways to do it ect.

All of those can go wherever. 

But the subject "mental health" is a VERY broad thing.... will that mean you would block threads about self help or someone making a thread about being sad? 
It's something that will be discussed before anything is done, which is why we wanted to get everyone's opinion on the matter so we can make something that works for everyone. We want people to feel safe on the site so we are open to any suggestions on the matter :)
Date: 18-11-2019 20:43
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Claire wrote:
MCS 

Anything but the way it is now.

The way it is now blows chunks. 
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Date: 18-11-2019 20:44
Saudade
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Saudade wrote:
i think 3 is best. i dont wanna leave the rl im in rn, plus, wouldnt that mean people under 18 cant discuss their mental health?
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Date: 18-11-2019 20:44
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Hennastii wrote:
ad0xa wrote:
I think it's good for people to talk about mental health.

But I think we should just ban the phrase " I wanna kill myself" or talking about ways to do it ect.

All of those can go wherever. 

But the subject "mental health" is a VERY broad thing.... will that mean you would block threads about self help or someone making a thread about being sad? 
if we end up changing the current system, we would obviously have to chat about what would be okay for the public forum for example and what not

for example we could say that self-help would be okay but someone telling that they wanna self-harm would be not
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Date: 18-11-2019 20:44
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Claire wrote:
Make it a way I can fuckin hide it. Make it so I don't have to see it anymore. 

Keep it out of the shouts. Keep it out of the front page. Put it somewhere that I don't have to see it.
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Posts: 55674
Date: 18-11-2019 20:45
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wrote:
Chlorine wrote:
DandelionMarie wrote:
Hennastii wrote:
we're not banning mental health as a topic, we're asking you whether we should continue like we're currently doing or whether we should change the system in some way

as mental health is an important topic to talk about
no but I just want you to understand that making a big chance about mental health need to be very well though tru 

So if I were to vote on the choices it would be 3, own section
Or make a mental health team who can watch over the forums. to be specific

if there is going to be a mental health team, please hire some people with an eduction and license to help because the people here can pretend all they want, and say they have experience -but it ain't worth shit 
sorry not sorry
yes, absolutely hire qualified personnel. 
Date: 18-11-2019 20:45
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Limited wrote:
Claire wrote:
Make it a way I can fuckin hide it. Make it so I don't have to see it anymore. 

Keep it out of the shouts. Keep it out of the front page. Put it somewhere that I don't have to see it.
YES PLEASE
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Date: 18-11-2019 20:45
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