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Chandelier wrote:
I'm just now getting back home from my trip. Please give me some time to read over everything. If there's a general question I think I can answer, I will post again with a response. If there's a specific question addressed to me, then I will edit in a response to that person's post and tag them if I can.

One thing I have seen is people wondering why I'm referring to documents that are not there or talking about my personal life.
1. I wrote this offline and emailed it in. I  had requested that all the documents be posted here so that people were able to read through them and know what I was referring to so that they could make their own judgments. I was under the impression that the documents and those responsible for writing them would be added to this post, which I why I referenced them not using 'code' and why I referenced parts of the documents at all.  I chose not to be involved in banning of anyone who made the documents, but I did suggest that anyone banned solely because of the documents be allowed to respond to this forum.
2. I did not and never would bring up my personal life as a pity party or some sort of guilt trip. That was never my intention. One of the documents referenced things that happened in my personal life. I was also told to write about my experiences with the people who were involved in making documents. Things that happened in my personal and the 'fight' were part of those experiences.
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Date: 13-04-2017 17:33
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Claire wrote:
Ok I read almost all of this and I think chandelier and hypoxia are too emotional to be moderators. If y'all let emotion cloud your judgment you have no business in a position of authority. 
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Date: 13-04-2017 18:07 | Times changed: 1
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Chandelier wrote:
I'm just now getting back home from my trip. Please give me some time to read over everything. If there's a general question I think I can answer, I will post again with a response. If there's a specific question addressed to me, then I will edit in a response to that person's post and tag them if I can.

One thing I have seen is people wondering why I'm referring to documents that are not there or talking about my personal life.
1. I wrote this offline and emailed it in. I  had requested that all the documents be posted here so that people were able to read through them and know what I was referring to so that they could make their own judgments. I was under the impression that the documents and those responsible for writing them would be added to this post, which I why I referenced them not using 'code' and why I referenced parts of the documents at all.  I chose not to be involved in banning of anyone who made the documents, but I did suggest that anyone banned solely because of the documents be allowed to respond to this forum.
2. I did not and never would bring up my personal life as a pity party or some sort of guilt trip. That was never my intention. One of the documents referenced things that happened in my personal life. I was also told to write about my experiences with the people who were involved in making documents. Things that happened in my personal and the 'fight' were part of those experiences.

i appreciate the response, this clears up most questions/concerns i had about the document, and i apologize for misinterpreting your post. i hope things get cleared up soon, because obviously there's some kind of miscommunication going on (that wasn't meant as a jab at anyone, just a broad statement)
Date: 13-04-2017 18:15
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Redd wrote:
i volunteer 2 b a new unbiaased mod
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Date: 13-04-2017 18:20
Redd
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Redd wrote:
Redd wrote:
i volunteer 2 b a new unbiaased mod

this is a joke pls dont hurt mi
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Date: 13-04-2017 18:20
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Halo wrote:
Redd wrote:
i volunteer 2 b a new unbiaased mod
me tooo!!
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Date: 13-04-2017 18:21
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Halo wrote:
Redd wrote:
Redd wrote:
i volunteer 2 b a new unbiaased mod

this is a joke pls dont hurt mi
lmao
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Date: 13-04-2017 18:21
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Redd wrote:
RING wrote:
Redd wrote:
i volunteer 2 b a new unbiaased mod
me tooo!!

we r the dream teem
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Date: 13-04-2017 18:21
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Halo wrote:
Redd wrote:
RING wrote:
Redd wrote:
i volunteer 2 b a new unbiaased mod
me tooo!!

we r the dream teem
we can make virtual poster better again!


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Date: 13-04-2017 18:22
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Obliviate wrote:
I'm sorry but this is an completly outrageous comment to come from a moderator. If this is what you think, then in my opinion you aren't appropriate to be a moderator. I can't seriously believe this can come from a current mod..

"One mod in particular was very mean, Chandelier, who wanted to be a child psychologist asked if she would be bad at her dream job because she couldn't handle a person like Tarrantthightop coming in. She would hand her off to someone else. Yes you'd be bad at your job if you turned away someone who is looking for help because you don't think their problems matter."

@Obliviate  Chandelier:
There's more context to that comment than what was added. It was not an attack at Tarrant, nor was it meant to be about her specifically. There was already a conversation about how to help her on VP when often times people feel she is not receptive to those trying to help her. I said that is one of the things I worry about for if I go that route and I get clients that behave similarly in the future. I did not say her problems didn't matter, nor have I stopped trying to help her since then. They teach you in class that if a client is not receptive of help or you've tried all you could and it's just not clicking, then you are supposed to turn them away to someone else that they might respond to better so they get help from them instead.  That comment was made with no regards to me being a mod, it was me venting about a part of psychology job that concerned me.
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Date: 13-04-2017 18:35 | Times changed: 1
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Chandelier wrote:
I've answered as much as I can before I have to go to class. I'll answer more when I'm home.
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Date: 13-04-2017 18:43
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Redd wrote:
frankly? i just want this shit to be over. im looking at all of this as an outsider- most of you probably dont even have any clue who i am.
my opinion: i think all of this is RIDICULOUS. i think the mods can be/are unprofessional and biased, and many of the community members can be/are rude, two-faced, and just in general almost every. single. person here, on this site, at any point in time, has the capability to be and has been problematic in one form or another.


let me ask all of you a question/say something:
@ Users
do you want mods to completely stop talking to normal users? do you want that open availability of trust and friendship to be reduced to nothing?? because if the answer is no, you cannot fucking expect these people to stay drama free 24/7. someone is always going to hate what they are doing, no matter what!!!! so unless you want them to become bot-like and emotionless like you would see on other, larger community websites, FORGIVE AND FORGET. this will never get better until we can let go and try and trust each other again!

@ Mods
stop being so distant and silent when things go awry. if you're gonna involve yourself personally this much in our community, you better be ready to pony up some explanations when reasons are cloudy, you cant have your cake and eat it too!!!

please dont let this fucking site rot and go to dust. gSm was my home, and i was just starting to see vp that way. i know you care about this website or else this wouldnt be an issue and you would be gone.
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Date: 13-04-2017 18:48 | Times changed: 1
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A message from Solitude abt the release of the document:
The mods nor ShadowJess has asked any of us who have made the document whether we was okay with it being released. There are reasons why we never released it to the public in the first place. It was meant to be something we could show to Kim to make her understand, not used as something so you guys can defend yourself in the public. I think it's distasteful that you do this without asking any of us (as far as I'm concerned). Next time don't make it all about you when there were people spending many days and hours on putting together this document. - Solitude
Date: 13-04-2017 18:51
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Redd wrote:
Josten wrote:
A message from Solitude abt the release of the document:
The mods nor ShadowJess has asked any of us who have made the document whether we was okay with it being released. There are reasons why we never released it to the public in the first place. It was meant to be something we could show to Kim to make her understand, not used as something so you guys can defend yourself in the public. I think it's distasteful that you do this without asking any of us (as far as I'm concerned). Next time don't make it all about you when there were people spending many days and hours on putting together this document. - Solitude

im sure this is old news but i swear i just saw her yesterday was she banned?
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Date: 13-04-2017 18:53
M31
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M31 wrote:
Why not have a team for feedback? Or account to send complaints to? Then communication is fixed! Tada.
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Date: 13-04-2017 18:54
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