ad0xa wrote:gothgirl wrote:ad0xa wrote:
I think there's a place for smut too. But it needs ot be smart smut? Or smut that at least explains why this isn't healthy XD
Like I say'd... it's like the thing with 50shades.
it's not
u can't compare this to 50 shades no matter how hard u try.
this is abt gay people getting objectified and sexualised for straight people's pleasure.
the other thing is for bored straight women who has bad sex and don't know what bdsm really is.
So the bdsm community isn't as valid community as gay community? Good to know...
Bdsm done badly is actually harmful for people too. Both physically and psychological. Yeah sure they don't have the *struggle* gay ppl have. But it's still smut that does bad things? And it's still something that
could be really good.
50shades made bored housewifes buy lots of sextoys and that's good. But it also makes bored housewifes that's in a bad relationship glorify that fact and think it's okay.
....so yeah I think it's more similar than you wanna make it. Things are not black and white dude. Smut has it's place and is something humans need. But it has to be smut that doesn't press on harmful things ofc.
I don't think a good world would be where only super serious gay drama was a thing and no silly smut about gay ppl was okay.
but what gothgirl is talking about isnt silly smut tho ?