Limbs wrote:
him: no drama, please. i just can't do this if you keep starting drama
also him: goes on a guilt-tripping, self-victimizing tantrum when i don't remind him to pack his toothbrush. gets mad at me because i tried to wake him up in the morning. gets mad at me because i didn't wake him up earlier. snaps at me because i hadn't emptied the dishwasher after he comes to stay at my house in the middle of the night without giving me any time to prepare. gets mad at me when he makes me late to my appointments. yells "why are you being so fucking distant, what the fuck did I DO that i can't even get a morning hug?!" at me when i'm being distant because he's been mad at me for random shit such as having the wrong kind of curtains all morning.
i just don't get it because he did all these in just a few days. and ofc there's more that i don't remember. within the last few months i've only gotten angry with him once and i never snap at him, even when i'm mad i don't yell n i try my hardest to not be guilt trippy or manipulative n resolve things in a constructive way. i don't understand why he has to be like this all the time, it really doesn't feel fair. but then he tells me that he takes care of me all the time and i don't do anything to take care of him, that he doesn't feel loved, that i'm being so cold like i don't care about him at all n it seems like i'm treating him badly all the time. like idk what's actually happening anymore