devilcake wrote:Heartbroken wrote:
Good going dad, you’ve pissed me off again
he like answered johannes that i was gonna be with them at christmas (he has not asked me that btw but whatever) and i told johannes the reason ive celebrated at grandparents last couple years and not with him dad and grandma is bc i want to be at first christmas day. So dad goes «if you wanna be there you’ll have to travel second christmas day» so i go «when everyone else has left? Fat losd of good that’ll do» and he just goes «well no one is stoping you from celebrating there this year too» so my voice starts wobbling bc im 2 sec away from crying as i reply «i havent gotten to celebrate christmas with grandma for 3 years and you knows it makes me sad» and he just responded with a like dismissive «nei vell» (idk how to translate that to english, directly its no well but idk)
Can you tell your father that my dad is a drug addict and alcoholic who lives in a different country and he would make more of an effort than he is doing so he gets it in his head that he’s being like actively horrible….
HEEEEEEEEEEEEEELP.....