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my fate is sealed y'all
Joob
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maybe u just need a labewbu
Taeyongnator
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devilcake wrote:
taeyongnator wrote:
devilcake wrote:
I don’t have irl social interaction either tbh so I don’t think a relationship or smth like that would solve a problem that at its core is about your own identity,Ā 

I also think a lot of these thoughts might be prompted by your age, not to sound like boring old cliche but like ur still in at an age that is generally quite unstable and having doubts about what you want in life n who you want to be is pretty normal
in my head it'd be the catalyst for change.. i'd need heartbreak so i can finally get up and do something, or alternatively i'll just fall even deeper into my issues hueehure

maybe..... ughhb :/

i honestly feel like the last time i was excited about my identity, me, my life, was when i was became a teenager. but that's obviously a part of that phase of life... but ugh it sucks that there's no Enjoyment or Excitement anymore
Heartbreak will not do thataorry to tell you….

i feel this too sometimes, i think a lot of it comes down to just life being dulled down by responsibilities etc too n isn’t necessarily tied to some inherent part of yourself
i think in my head the next kind of Enjoyment/Excitement is doing the adult things like having a relationship, but maybe that's not it either i don't know.. i'm looking for a way to be excited again but maybe i don't have to be excited again and it'll be fine :/
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taeyongnator wrote:
Heartbroken wrote:
taeyongnator wrote:
i should do it foreal why does this feel so emabrasing..
Probably bc certain stigmas, but there’s rly nothing embarrasing about it?Ā 
theowback to me talking abt fucking mha woth my therapist AFSGDHD
ughhhh !!! ughh !!!!! .. i'm so emnbarrassed.
There’s nothing to be embarrassed about!!!! Getting a professional opinion and help CAN be beneficial and if you don’t think so after doing it, there’s nothing forcing you to continue !!
Taeyongnator
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joob wrote:
maybe u just need a labewbu
ohhh... maybe
Taeyongnator
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Heartbroken wrote:
taeyongnator wrote:
Heartbroken wrote:
Probably bc certain stigmas, but there’s rly nothing embarrasing about it?Ā 
theowback to me talking abt fucking mha woth my therapist AFSGDHD
ughhhh !!! ughh !!!!! .. i'm so emnbarrassed.
There’s nothing to be embarrassed about!!!! Getting a professional opinion and help CAN be beneficial and if you don’t think so after doing it, there’s nothing forcing you to continue !!
no i'm better than this i'm normal now i don't need help i can decide to be better and normal and healthy right now
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taeyongnator wrote:
devilcake wrote:
I’m not even a therapy solves everything everyone should be therapized sort of person but I feel like this sort of identity crisis is the exact thing therapy would be very benifitial for
i guess i had very different expectations for it when i tried therapy because i was so disappointed but looking back i guess i can see why my therapist told me to Just Do Things.. but idk it still didnt feel like the best approach but ueygrrhe maybe now that i can somehwat communicate somewhat better i can try explaining that
Yeah I mean maybe you needed another therapist bc they weren’t a good fit or maybe you needed to go for another approach yea, the like just do it sorta thing feels pretty cbt (not cock and ball torture) but maybe you should look into dbt therapy
Private
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taeyongnator wrote:
Heartbroken wrote:
taeyongnator wrote:
ughhhh !!! ughh !!!!! .. i'm so emnbarrassed.
There’s nothing to be embarrassed about!!!! Getting a professional opinion and help CAN be beneficial and if you don’t think so after doing it, there’s nothing forcing you to continue !!
no i'm better than this i'm normal now i don't need help i can decide to be better and normal and healthy right now
Normal people can go to therapy too
Taeyongnator
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devilcake wrote:
taeyongnator wrote:
devilcake wrote:
I’m not even a therapy solves everything everyone should be therapized sort of person but I feel like this sort of identity crisis is the exact thing therapy would be very benifitial for
i guess i had very different expectations for it when i tried therapy because i was so disappointed but looking back i guess i can see why my therapist told me to Just Do Things.. but idk it still didnt feel like the best approach but ueygrrhe maybe now that i can somehwat communicate somewhat better i can try explaining that
Yeah I mean maybe you needed another therapist bc they weren’t a good fit or maybe you needed to go for another approach yea, the like just do it sorta thing feels pretty cbt (not cock and ball torture) but maybe you should look into dbt therapy
i would do this yes ive considered it
Taeyongnator
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Heartbroken wrote:
taeyongnator wrote:
Heartbroken wrote:
There’s nothing to be embarrassed about!!!! Getting a professional opinion and help CAN be beneficial and if you don’t think so after doing it, there’s nothing forcing you to continue !!
no i'm better than this i'm normal now i don't need help i can decide to be better and normal and healthy right now
Normal people can go to therapy too
god okay i'm letting go of the stigma now. i'm accepting of receiving therapy now
Private
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taeyongnator wrote:
Heartbroken wrote:
taeyongnator wrote:
no i'm better than this i'm normal now i don't need help i can decide to be better and normal and healthy right now
Normal people can go to therapy too
god okay i'm letting go of the stigma now. i'm accepting of receiving therapy now
Hell yeah!!
Joob
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taeyongnator wrote:
Heartbroken wrote:
taeyongnator wrote:
no i'm better than this i'm normal now i don't need help i can decide to be better and normal and healthy right now
Normal people can go to therapy too
god okay i'm letting go of the stigma now. i'm accepting of receiving therapy now
yayyy
Taeyongnator
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this thread has me feeling so

Private
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Heartbroken wrote:
taeyongnator wrote:
Heartbroken wrote:
There’s nothing to be embarrassed about!!!! Getting a professional opinion and help CAN be beneficial and if you don’t think so after doing it, there’s nothing forcing you to continue !!
no i'm better than this i'm normal now i don't need help i can decide to be better and normal and healthy right now
Normal people can go to therapy too
My dad to me when he found out I was goin to therapy after he went to therapy with my mom
Private
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devilcake wrote:
Heartbroken wrote:
taeyongnator wrote:
no i'm better than this i'm normal now i don't need help i can decide to be better and normal and healthy right now
Normal people can go to therapy too
My dad to me when he found out I was goin to therapy after he went to therapy with my mom
Help??
Private
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taeyongnator wrote:
devilcake wrote:
taeyongnator wrote:
i guess i had very different expectations for it when i tried therapy because i was so disappointed but looking back i guess i can see why my therapist told me to Just Do Things.. but idk it still didnt feel like the best approach but ueygrrhe maybe now that i can somehwat communicate somewhat better i can try explaining that
Yeah I mean maybe you needed another therapist bc they weren’t a good fit or maybe you needed to go for another approach yea, the like just do it sorta thing feels pretty cbt (not cock and ball torture) but maybe you should look into dbt therapy
i would do this yes ive considered it
I think atp thats the best advice i can give i know just go to therapy blah blah sucks to hear but yeah i think that really should be your next step
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