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and i absolutely know the humiliation ur talking about. it sucks. but trust that time will heal the severity of the emotional blow
sending a virtual hug
Anachronism wrote:
it's okay don't suppress ur feelings or they will come back full force lol. sorry for sounding like a therapist but it's true.Ruee901 wrote:
remember that confronting the problem is really hard esp when ur at rock-bottom.
I can’t do anything else but move on from here, I know. Still feels like shit, especially because everyone watched me burn out. Embarrassing Anachronism wrote:
Nah I knew better. I’m pushing 30 (senior vp user). This isn’t my first job. Nor is it the first time my mental health has caused me issues on the job. I kept my last job cuz it was a shitty grocery store job and no one cared. Caregiving is a little different.
I can’t go back tho. All I can do is actually learn my lesson this time instead of repeating the same mistakes. Everyone knew I was going to run into issues if I didn’t solve the problem and I just so happened to try to resolve things until it was too late.
well, i used to say the same things to myself and overtime realised that in fact, i didn't know any better.self blame never helped me personally and it made things worse. what helps is realizing that your problems are out of control rn and you need professional help.Nah I knew better. I’m pushing 30 (senior vp user). This isn’t my first job. Nor is it the first time my mental health has caused me issues on the job. I kept my last job cuz it was a shitty grocery store job and no one cared. Caregiving is a little different.
I can’t go back tho. All I can do is actually learn my lesson this time instead of repeating the same mistakes. Everyone knew I was going to run into issues if I didn’t solve the problem and I just so happened to try to resolve things until it was too late.
remember that confronting the problem is really hard esp when ur at rock-bottom.
and i absolutely know the humiliation ur talking about. it sucks. but trust that time will heal the severity of the emotional blow
sending a virtual hug