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HELp should i stay home or go to my mum's....
HARMA
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HARMA wrote:
...birthday party tomorrow (today since it's like 2am) 
i went to take a corona test today because i saw a friend quickly a couple days ago and she tested positive. but i just noticed, at 2am, that i got a text at 9.50pm saying my result was negative


my mum's having her 50th birthday party and i was both looking forward to go and really anxious because i haven't seen my sister in like 2 years and she's only in the country for a few more days and there are other relatives i'd love to catch up with too. but approximately a week ago i was sexually abused and it's really hard to deal with and today felt like the first time in AGES i had so so much fun and like things stayed in a friendly zone and everybody left home at a reasonable hour. the hours  and minutes have been very long this week. i feel like i'm starting to be able to set boundaries again, but it's really exhausting and i don't know if i have it in me to go, but if i don't i'll feel guilty?? the things are so separate but i can't just ignore either?????
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Date: 24-07-2021 00:57
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maybe u could compromise,, being there for a short while and then go home to rest ?
i think u rly need the rest, but i also get it's a big celebration (ur moms birthday) so i'd try to gather some energy to celebrate for a short while and then u could tell her that ur exhausted from the recent days/weeks
i think she would understand
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Date: 24-07-2021 01:05
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HARMA wrote:
Nice wrote:
maybe u could compromise,, being there for a short while and then go home to rest ?
i think u rly need the rest, but i also get it's a big celebration (ur moms birthday) so i'd try to gather some energy to celebrate for a short while and then u could tell her that ur exhausted from the recent days/weeks
i think she would understand
it sounds very reasonable but i'm afraid i can't make all the travel plans at this late point in time because i'm a bit high and i only slept like 2-3 hours last night. if i want to go i need to make the plans to make sure i know how early i need to set my alarm i wouldn't even put on if i didn't already get the text saying i'm negative
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Date: 24-07-2021 01:07
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Ground wrote:
HARMA wrote:
Nice wrote:
maybe u could compromise,, being there for a short while and then go home to rest ?
i think u rly need the rest, but i also get it's a big celebration (ur moms birthday) so i'd try to gather some energy to celebrate for a short while and then u could tell her that ur exhausted from the recent days/weeks
i think she would understand
it sounds very reasonable but i'm afraid i can't make all the travel plans at this late point in time because i'm a bit high and i only slept like 2-3 hours last night. if i want to go i need to make the plans to make sure i know how early i need to set my alarm i wouldn't even put on if i didn't already get the text saying i'm negative
with that in mind i would explain all of this to ur mom and maybe visit her another day to celebrate her, but only u and her ? since i rly think u need to sleep and rest, cause it wouldn't be fun showing up to a joyful event being drained and in a bad / low mood
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Date: 24-07-2021 01:13
HARMA
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HARMA wrote:
Nice wrote:
HARMA wrote:
Nice wrote:
maybe u could compromise,, being there for a short while and then go home to rest ?
i think u rly need the rest, but i also get it's a big celebration (ur moms birthday) so i'd try to gather some energy to celebrate for a short while and then u could tell her that ur exhausted from the recent days/weeks
i think she would understand
it sounds very reasonable but i'm afraid i can't make all the travel plans at this late point in time because i'm a bit high and i only slept like 2-3 hours last night. if i want to go i need to make the plans to make sure i know how early i need to set my alarm i wouldn't even put on if i didn't already get the text saying i'm negative
with that in mind i would explain all of this to ur mom and maybe visit her another day to celebrate her, but only u and her ? since i rly think u need to sleep and rest, cause it wouldn't be fun showing up to a joyful event being drained and in a bad / low mood
yeah i think i'll just have to go to bed and play it by the ear tomorrow
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Date: 24-07-2021 01:24
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HARMA wrote:
thanks for answering <3 it was helpful
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Date: 24-07-2021 01:24
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Ground wrote:
HARMA wrote:
thanks for answering <3 it was helpful
<3!
i know how important resting is ! it always pays off to rest and meet people when ur energy is there again !
sometimes we get drained at the wrong time, but that's life, it's unpredictable !
i hope u can sleep well !
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Date: 24-07-2021 01:26
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