Would this make me a creep? - Forum

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DaddyIssues wrote:
I wrote with a guy on tinder about a year ago before we lost contact. Got him as a recommended person on instagram now.

Would it be weird to follow him and send him a message?

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kagura wrote:
well, how would you feel if some old tinder match did that to you?
but i mean no it's not automatically creepy, idk i would be uncomfortable with that. but i don't honestly even remember anyone from tinder who i didn't meet irl

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ouch wrote:
Not creepy, I think its only creepy for ppl that don't remember any faces or names (cus they think like how tf did they remember me but I don't remeber them, creepy) but like ?? Its pretty normal to remmeber ppl, at least when reminded of them, and as long as u don't send multiple messages or smth if he doesn't asnwer you, its fine

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ouch wrote:
It would b creepy if u had never talked to him and u just matched, but if u talked then yeah

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DaddyIssues wrote:

ouch wrote:
Not creepy, I think its only creepy for ppl that don't remember any faces or names (cus they think like how tf did they remember me but I don't remeber them, creepy) but like ?? Its pretty normal to remmeber ppl, at least when reminded of them, and as long as u don't send multiple messages or smth if he doesn't asnwer you, its fine

Yea, I get that. I personally usually have a really hard time remembering faces.
But he have an extremely unique face which is why I remembered...

Yea. I sent something kinda short and wrote that I think we wrote on tinder a while back. I THINK it didn't come of as creepy or stalky