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Hi Guys, so my LDR Bf dumped me yesterday - per text.
His text was very emotionless and he even told me he loves me on the same day in the morning. We had our issues, but it just feels he searched after a reason to finally break up with me. Before he sent the text, he sent me a screenshot how he writes to one of his female friends "how much he appreciates her and is thankful that she is ALWAYS there for him and ALWAYS listening for him <3". I don't know why he sent me that, maybe to make me jealous because he knows I don't really like their close friendship at all. He knows this is my fear and he choose to send it to me and then was surprised, I acted weird and told him "I wish he would say this much more often to me too" - of course he got defensive and started to argue.
Well anyways, we argued and he told me he needs to chill because he is "burned out" - mind you he does not work, neither has a lot to do. Play Video Games all day, and we don't talk/call everday. So yeah, we texted the last 4 days.
Then 4 Hours later, he hits me with a break up text, that reads so emotionless, withdrawn, and written like it was with ChatGPT??? I'm still in utter shock and feel a lot in pain.
He wanted to visit me in 2 days. He already had the tickets. He already had holidays booked from his employment agency where he looks from jobs. We would have a nice week next week, and celebrate my birthday. I even bought cake for us.
Well.
This all just deleted itself infront of my eyes. Now it seems I never was part of his life ever. Removed me everywhere in his bio, downgraded me to normal viewer rank in his Discord and so on.
He just acts like it's nothing. Meant nothing. We were together for almost 11 Months. Our anniversary would be next month.
I don't know how to cope honestly.
I'm heartbroken and don't know how to function.
If you all have any advice how to make the pain better, please help me out. I would appreciate this a lot
His text was very emotionless and he even told me he loves me on the same day in the morning. We had our issues, but it just feels he searched after a reason to finally break up with me. Before he sent the text, he sent me a screenshot how he writes to one of his female friends "how much he appreciates her and is thankful that she is ALWAYS there for him and ALWAYS listening for him <3". I don't know why he sent me that, maybe to make me jealous because he knows I don't really like their close friendship at all. He knows this is my fear and he choose to send it to me and then was surprised, I acted weird and told him "I wish he would say this much more often to me too" - of course he got defensive and started to argue.
Well anyways, we argued and he told me he needs to chill because he is "burned out" - mind you he does not work, neither has a lot to do. Play Video Games all day, and we don't talk/call everday. So yeah, we texted the last 4 days.
Then 4 Hours later, he hits me with a break up text, that reads so emotionless, withdrawn, and written like it was with ChatGPT??? I'm still in utter shock and feel a lot in pain.
He wanted to visit me in 2 days. He already had the tickets. He already had holidays booked from his employment agency where he looks from jobs. We would have a nice week next week, and celebrate my birthday. I even bought cake for us.
Well.
This all just deleted itself infront of my eyes. Now it seems I never was part of his life ever. Removed me everywhere in his bio, downgraded me to normal viewer rank in his Discord and so on.
He just acts like it's nothing. Meant nothing. We were together for almost 11 Months. Our anniversary would be next month.
I don't know how to cope honestly.
I'm heartbroken and don't know how to function.
If you all have any advice how to make the pain better, please help me out. I would appreciate this a lot
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