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bee wrote:
because what will happen is the snowball will get bigger as it rolls down the hill and now my friend... lover... whatever you wanna call it asked me to bring home something from the café job he thinks i have had for the past two months that in reality i havent started yet bc anxiety. but soon i will!! maybe this friday!! then its not a lie anymore. anyways, the snowball keeps rolling 
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Date: 22-07-2026 20:21
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bee wrote:
update i finally did it!!! i can stop lying now
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Date: 24-07-2026 22:26
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Kofod wrote:
bee wrote:
update i finally did it!!! i can stop lying now
Went to the cafe job or told that you hadn't been there for work yet?
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Date: 24-07-2026 22:28
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devilcake wrote:
Good job /gen
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Date: 24-07-2026 22:33
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Azriel wrote:
bee wrote:
update i finally did it!!! i can stop lying now
How did it go !!!!
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Date: 24-07-2026 22:36
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bee wrote:
Kofod wrote:
bee wrote:
update i finally did it!!! i can stop lying now
Went to the cafe job or told that you hadn't been there for work yet?
went to the job!! and i survived the first day. the first day is always the worst but i did it so i can do this now!!
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Date: 25-07-2026 02:53
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bee wrote:
devilcake wrote:
Good job /gen
love the pun, thank you!!
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Date: 25-07-2026 02:53
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bee wrote:
Azriel wrote:
bee wrote:
update i finally did it!!! i can stop lying now
How did it go !!!!
really good. i was 10 minutes late bc my anxiety was so bad. but i used all my mental strength and won over my fear. im really fucking proud of myself. and of course everyone there is so sweet and welcoming
i did have one moment where i finished my task and i was like ok what do i do now and i was too scared to approach my colleague to ask. so i just hit in a corner for a little while lol. but at the end of the shift i already felt more confident and independent

also once i get comfortable we need to do some changes here. new balls on the soup as we say in danish. as a passionate coffee lover/brewer the coffee station is a MESS. there is no harmony and i plan to change it and make it better
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Date: 25-07-2026 02:58
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bee wrote:
for anyone who need to win over the anxiety in difficult situations. what worked for me today was doing two things simultaneous

1. find two separate points in your view. a left point and a right point. move your eyes from point left to right. i do it 50 times. the eye movements stimulate the muscle that send signals to your brain and somehow reduce stress/anxiety 

2. superman position. pose your body like how superman is standing. legs apart, hands on waist, chest raised. standing like you are confident WILL give you confidence 

also remind yourself why you are doing this. for me this job means my future. and doing this also meant i could stop lying. those were the two rational reason i had to hold on to in the moment
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Date: 25-07-2026 03:06
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bee wrote:
another this that helps me is counting. counting in danish, english, spanish. any language you know or slightly know. counting backwards and doing different tabeller (whats the english word here?)
it forces you to think about something else and you will also activate another part of your brain than the part that controls the anxiety 
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Date: 25-07-2026 03:11
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bee wrote:
i love you all, please know that if you struggle with anxiety you are not alone and you CAN WIN. anxiety does not have to control your life. the next time your anxiety tells you that you cant do this remember that i tell you now YOU!!! CAN!!! DO!!! THIS!!!!!!!
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An inspiring queen
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bee wrote:
NobodyFamous wrote:
An inspiring queen
i dont know why i was put in this world im just trying to do my best both failing and succeeding 
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Date: 25-07-2026 05:17
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