meilin wrote:Miguel wrote:
does he text u... does he hang out with u... how does he act around u and with u...
we were close during the course. shared some personal stuff, sat together in classes etc. he would notice small stuff about me and just randomly bring it up later. but it was also a bit mixed (
long topic) and idk if i would read it as romantic. but then again, i was still with my ex back then, so there obviously couldn't have been anything romantic.
i sent him some files (via text) he had asked for at the end of the course and we texted very briefly. i told him that it was cool talking to him, he agreed and then said that "maybe we can plan something later to meet in CityXinTheNL too". i sent him a funny cat some days later (i was playing a cat-themed cardgame with my roomies), he reacted to it and asked if im back in CityXinTheNL already. he said he's busy moving but we could meet later. and added "maybe plan something with the others as well". which was kind of a weird addition given that i was not close with the others at all. i feel like it was a soft rejection from his side and he hasn't texted me since (it's been 2 weeks - i doubt moving from one city to another can take that long, even with study duties. he's moving 2-3 hours further away). regarding the relationship status, i broke up with my ex soon after the course ended because it felt morally questionable (and it still does, but i have chosen ignorance) and to be fair, i just didn't want to work things out anymore
i guess there would be nothing wrong with u just writing him how the move has been and how he is