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lol sometimes i feel like i SHOULD
Tavia
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Tavia wrote:
Rowan wrote:
bbut anyway i was kidna like thinking abt other stuff   but i dont wanna talk abt it bc then the wanna be nice ppl r gonna deny it or whatever 

who are these "wanna b nice ppl" you're talking about?

I mean, feel free to share your thoughts. It's your forum after all. 

It's an interesting topic. ^^
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Date: 19-10-2018 01:43
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commander2 wrote:
Tavia wrote:
Rowan wrote:
bbut anyway i was kidna like thinking abt other stuff   but i dont wanna talk abt it bc then the wanna be nice ppl r gonna deny it or whatever 

who are these "wanna b nice ppl" you're talking about?

I mean, feel free to share your thoughts. It's your forum after all. 

It's an interesting topic. ^^
Y'know if some1 for example is like idk 'my art looks bad' nd they're like 'nooo thats not true ur amazing and talented blabla' bbut maybe more to like cheer that person up than that they mean it at all or whatever
Ofc i cant know if compliments r genuine or not I just tend to assume ppl r trying to be nice or exaggarating or whatever
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Date: 19-10-2018 02:01
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Limbs wrote:
oh i've felt like this too
like saying i had low self esteem just felt wrong, because i felt like i'm so bad that i'm not allowed to feel good about myself so that phrase doesn't apply to me
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Date: 19-10-2018 02:03
Tavia
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Tavia wrote:
Rowan wrote:
Tavia wrote:
Rowan wrote:
bbut anyway i was kidna like thinking abt other stuff   but i dont wanna talk abt it bc then the wanna be nice ppl r gonna deny it or whatever 

who are these "wanna b nice ppl" you're talking about?

I mean, feel free to share your thoughts. It's your forum after all. 

It's an interesting topic. ^^
Y'know if some1 for example is like idk 'my art looks bad' nd they're like 'nooo thats not true ur amazing and talented blabla' bbut maybe more to like cheer that person up than that they mean it at all or whatever
Ofc i cant know if compliments r genuine or not I just tend to assume ppl r trying to be nice or exaggarating or whatever
Well, yea as you said yourself, you can't know if people do genuinely think the person's art (as an example) is amazing or not. But I totally get ya on the whole "they're probably just saying that to be nice", I relate to that
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Date: 19-10-2018 02:19
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Ara wrote:
Self-hate is mean. Hating oneself is no different from hating anyone else. Why? Because you just happen to be a living being too, you fool!!11

Honestly though, modesty and humbleness are great things, but unnecessarily beating oneself down for no good reason is not. 

Be humble, but also pet yourself on the shoulder. Pet yourself on the shoulder, but also be humble. Befriend yourself. There is no reason to be mean towards yourself or deny yourself praise, etc. No reason. At all. 

You're a person just like anyone else. Why treat yourself any different? 

So uhh, yeah. Don't hate yourself. If you're gonna dislike yourself don't do it for petty reasons like "I'm not good at that" or "I'm not like that" or whatever the reason. Recognize your faults and flaws but learn and grow from them rather than beat yourself up for them. 

And heck yeah you gonna have confidence. Confidence is good. Everyone should have confidence (together with humbleness of course). I can't imagine a person that 'should' have bad confidence. I don't believe such a person exists.
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Yoko wrote:
u may feel tht way sometimes but it isnt tru
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Date: 19-10-2018 03:36
Tavia
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Tavia wrote:
Ara wrote:
Self-hate is mean. Hating oneself is no different from hating anyone else. Why? Because you just happen to be a living being too, you fool!!11

Honestly though, modesty and humbleness are great things, but unnecessarily beating oneself down for no good reason is not. 

Be humble, but also pet yourself on the shoulder. Pet yourself on the shoulder, but also be humble. Befriend yourself. There is no reason to be mean towards yourself or deny yourself praise, etc. No reason. At all. 

You're a person just like anyone else. Why treat yourself any different? 

So uhh, yeah. Don't hate yourself. If you're gonna dislike yourself don't do it for petty reasons like "I'm not good at that" or "I'm not like that" or whatever the reason. Recognize your faults and flaws but learn and grow from them rather than beat yourself up for them. 

And heck yeah you gonna have confidence. Confidence is good. Everyone should have confidence (together with humbleness of course). I can't imagine a person that 'should' have bad confidence. I don't believe such a person exists.
Heck yea dude!!! Good words. 
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Date: 19-10-2018 10:39
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