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Do you like yourself??
Vytheria
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Vytheria wrote:
i like the way i look except for the bump on my nose and my hip dips bc they ruin my figure, but i dont like myself as a person and i def think theres a lot of improving to do

its not that im a bad person but im struggling with a lot of things like my mental health and some bad habits
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Date: 18-03-2018 14:58
CoolDood
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CoolDood wrote:
Warden wrote:
CoolDood wrote:
Warden wrote:
kind of but also i have depression that makes me hate myself a lot
im sorry for that but remember its not your fault and thats the depression giving you a hard time on yourself and keeping you from reconnecting with yourself on a positive way
it is hard but there are brighter times ahead and you are beautiful and deserve love, stay strong <3
i've spent years among depressed individuals so I've learned to recognize what's depression talk and symptoms and what's not I just generally ignore the self hate my brain is trying to feed me and my friends are a big help with that so I'm doing alright (at least for now) !
thats awesome and im glad you have friends who are there for you and support each other
i feel like i woulda gotten over my depressions much quicker if i wouldve known when i was actually just spiraling deeper into bad depression thoughts and selfpitying so i could recognize and try to stop myself from falling deeper
but by now ive learned to manage and overcome those episodes and bad thought patterns
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Date: 18-03-2018 15:01
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commander2 wrote:
CoolDood wrote:
Rowan wrote:
CoolDood wrote:
i guess its not always easy to figure it out
or some days you just dont feel yourself for some reason
most of the time im kinda annoying i guess
sometime si wish i could clone myself so i could punch myself in the face lol 
bbbut idk if i rlly dislike myself or whatever 

i sometimes think myself as annoying too but then i remember if people really thought of me like that they would tell me abt it (or if not theyre not really the people i need/want to call friends)
i think youre a cool and awesome creative person and i never felt you as annoying u3u
my friends do tell me im annoying lol (like mostly irl bc im just rlly over the top nd dramatic nd stuff but i cant manage to get rid of it so i guess its just part of me nd i h8 it grrr!!!) i think online it's maybe not that bad bc i get more time to think before acting nd stuff 
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Date: 18-03-2018 15:03
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DEITY wrote:
CoolDood wrote:
Waifu wrote:
Nah sadly not

Most of the time I just dislike myself but then I have times where I really hate myself and that sucks ass
do you know why that is? what makes you dislike yourself?
Yes I do, it's probably because I got bullied and eating disorders. At first I only hated my body, but then I started to hate my face and at last my personality as well.
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Date: 18-03-2018 15:03
CoolDood
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CoolDood wrote:
Vytheria wrote:
i like the way i look except for the bump on my nose and my hip dips bc they ruin my figure, but i dont like myself as a person and i def think theres a lot of improving to do

its not that im a bad person but im struggling with a lot of things like my mental health and some bad habits
im sure youll be able to improve on your struggles and habits, you already recognized what you can improve on and thats good! and little by little you can work on what you wanna get better at. you got this!! <3
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Date: 18-03-2018 15:04
Starbomb
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Starbomb wrote:
No, I really don't, haha.

Of course I have ~some~ good traits, but overall I'm lazy and untalented and ugly. But I'm such a negative person that even when I improve things that I dislike about myself I still find something else I hate about myself.
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Date: 18-03-2018 15:07
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rottomilko wrote:
CoolDood wrote:
Melk wrote:
CoolDood wrote:

hm i think youll get there. i noticed that i got way more outgoing and like accessible as soon as i came to be happy with my quirks and go with the flow more
you notice trying to talk to people is always a chance and basically theres nothing to lose so i just go for it
tho im still shy sometimes ;v;
or i'm actually good at getting friends n stuff. 
but i'm not good at like deeper friendship connections, like i've never had an actual best friend and not that many close friends.
omg i know this so well, i have so many fleeting friendships bot often feel lost when i really need to hug someone or talk some things out and with a lot of my friends im often shy to ask if theyre okay with me venting my problems and stuff
but i also try to reach out bc i think maybe they do want to help me if they knew i was unhappy i should let them know and give them a chance to be there for me (bc i would wanna know if they were unhappy)
YES THIS! so much

i'm also a very caring person so people sometimes talk with me if they feel bad, but i feel like i can't do the same. i'm kinda the parent/"mom" of the "friend gang(s)" so it feels like people just take me for granted. 
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Date: 18-03-2018 15:08 | Times changed: 1
GenderTeam
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GenderTeam wrote:
i don't like myself i can be a nasty person and i don't like it and i also hate my appearance..
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Date: 18-03-2018 15:08
CoolDood
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CoolDood wrote:
Rowan wrote:
CoolDood wrote:
Rowan wrote:
most of the time im kinda annoying i guess
sometime si wish i could clone myself so i could punch myself in the face lol 
bbbut idk if i rlly dislike myself or whatever 

i sometimes think myself as annoying too but then i remember if people really thought of me like that they would tell me abt it (or if not theyre not really the people i need/want to call friends)
i think youre a cool and awesome creative person and i never felt you as annoying u3u
my friends do tell me im annoying lol (like mostly irl bc im just rlly over the top nd dramatic nd stuff but i cant manage to get rid of it so i guess its just part of me nd i h8 it grrr!!!) i think online it's maybe not that bad bc i get more time to think before acting nd stuff
aw but im actually a lot like that too. i get really excited and emptional over stuff esp when im fangirling abt things but i also know that my friends know me that way and stick around even tho its a little much sometimes (and i also know how to like keep it socially acceptable and not go full on fanmode xD)
i dont think its something you should hate yourself for, its a good thing you can get this into things and excited and connect to what makes you happy or ecstatic. if people find it annoying thats understandable but i dont think that you should entirely reject this trait of yours bc its a little annoying. maybe you can tone it down just a little if your friends are really that annoyed by it?!
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Date: 18-03-2018 15:08
CoolDood
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CoolDood wrote:
Waifu wrote:
CoolDood wrote:
Waifu wrote:
Nah sadly not

Most of the time I just dislike myself but then I have times where I really hate myself and that sucks ass
do you know why that is? what makes you dislike yourself?
Yes I do, it's probably because I got bullied and eating disorders. At first I only hated my body, but then I started to hate my face and at last my personality as well.
oh my thats terrible ;;A;; i got bullied too and i always thought it was my fault and that i wasnt the right person or ugly or not acceptable in some way but it really isnt like that!!
bullies are not doing this bc theres anything wrong with you, its all about whats wrong with themselves or maybe they really are just mindless sadists (which is also super wrong)
I bet youre a really kind and beautiful person!!
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Date: 18-03-2018 15:12
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Raquelle wrote:
no I don't like myself
I'm negative and such a burden to my friends too often
I overreact to everything so easily 
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Date: 18-03-2018 15:12
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Gunshot wrote:
Lol no, how can I? I hate myself so much that I therefore think everyone else does too
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Date: 18-03-2018 15:13
Eppu
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eppu wrote:
Sometimes yes but mostly no
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Date: 18-03-2018 15:15
CoolDood
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CoolDood wrote:
Starbomb wrote:
No, I really don't, haha.

Of course I have ~some~ good traits, but overall I'm lazy and untalented and ugly. But I'm such a negative person that even when I improve things that I dislike about myself I still find something else I hate about myself.
I used to feel like that but i also thought wow im actually the only perosn who could change it why am i not doing it??
the way you evaluate yourself reminds me of how i felt abt myself when i was still very depressed and its a thought pattern thats very hard to break
i cannot give a definite solution but if you think youre lazy and unskilled (bc talent is just pursued skill it womt come to you by pure chance alone) then try to take steps and work towards being more productive and creative, draw more, write more or whatever creative skill you wanna pursue DO THINGS even if theyre just as small as a doodle or haiku or two frame animation but try to get out and be active in some small way, set small goals and make small achievements, i promise it will get better from there even if its hard to begin
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Date: 18-03-2018 15:16
CoolDood
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CoolDood wrote:
intimate wrote:
i don't like myself i can be a nasty person and i don't like it and i also hate my appearance..
what makes yu a nasty person?
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Date: 18-03-2018 15:16
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