Escobar wrote:Donkeyboy wrote:
You have to stop lending her money. She might get angry for that, but honestly you need the money more than anything right now and especially if your budget for stuff is tight.
It's not good having people around who asks for stuff but then can't pay back? Like I get if something happens once or twice but this situation seems to happen over and over again so my advice is to just stop with the lending of the money. And maybe the friendship should be considered if it's real or not. The excuses don't add up especially with her behavior from what I gathered with the main post.
She seems shitty.
I know. I just love her very much. She's my best friend - and has been fore more than ten years.
I just find it hard to say no, since I'm a very helpful and kind person. I'm giving - physical og psychological.
Just by continuously having to ask makes my stomach hurt a lot because I feel so...bad about it? I know it's a bad behaviour that I'm enabling, but it's just hard to say no.
Do you think she can be using your kindness against you? I'm not saying that she does since I'm not her but I can't help but wonder if it could be that way. I'm asking because I've dealt with lots of fake people, manipulative ones and bullies etc.