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help me i have an issue
Pitbull
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Pitbull wrote:
my best friend often ask me for small loans (like 50-100 kr) and she's honestly so bad at paying them back.
Yesterday she asked to borrow 50 kr - and then I reminded her that I hadn't received the 100 kr that i deviously lent her

she said she would pay me by the evening that day - but still hasn't done it. 
I don't think it's because she doesn't want to - I think she just forgets.
And i just asked her if her mobile bank worked - or just worked, since the system was down, along with the usual "how's school" 
She replied to the school part and now idk what to do.
I need the money for my medication, that i'll have to buy tomorrow. 


Can I ask the question again? or should I wait another day and just try to survive without my meds for a few days?


update:


Okay, I'm stupid.
I texted he yesterday asking her for the money and she promised me that she would fix it at the moment.
Today i had to buy my medication at the pharmacy and my card was declined. I've never felt more embarrassed and upset in my whole life. 
She promised me that she would pay me back already two days ago. 
If it wasn't from a nice old lady, I wouldn't have been able to get my medication - and i need those meds just to get out fo my bed in the morning - or just outside without being a complete mess.
Im so freaking upset right now - and I know its all my fault.
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Date: 18-12-2018 20:14 | Times changed: 1
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Duchess wrote:
I would just demand her to pay it back now and then not lend her money in the future. As you actually need it she needs to pay it back. 
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Date: 18-12-2018 20:16
MissLondon
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MissLondon wrote:
Fleaur wrote:
I would just demand her to pay it back now and then not lend her money in the future. As you actually need it she needs to pay it back. 
вeѕт advιce ever
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Date: 18-12-2018 20:18
Pitbull
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Pitbull wrote:
Fleaur wrote:
I would just demand her to pay it back now and then not lend her money in the future. As you actually need it she needs to pay it back. 

I know, but I feel like I'm annoying or rude to constantly ask, which is why I avoid asking/reminding her all the time.
I feel like a shitty friend since I have to ask and demand, because if i had a more stable and wider economy, I would be able to just lend these money out.

It might not be a lot for some people, but it's a lot for me, since I have to pay my own meds and bills. 
I just feel so shitty and just ugh. My stomach hurts and I'm afraid that she'll hate me or get frustrated/annoyed/mad/
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Date: 18-12-2018 20:20
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Duchess wrote:
Escobar wrote:
Fleaur wrote:
I would just demand her to pay it back now and then not lend her money in the future. As you actually need it she needs to pay it back. 

I know, but I feel like I'm annoying or rude to constantly ask, which is why I avoid asking/reminding her all the time.
I feel like a shitty friend since I have to ask and demand, because if i had a more stable and wider economy, I would be able to just lend these money out.

It might not be a lot for some people, but it's a lot for me, since I have to pay my own meds and bills. 
I just feel so shitty and just ugh. My stomach hurts and I'm afraid that she'll hate me or get frustrated/annoyed/mad/
First of, you aren't annoying or rude, you were kind to lend her money and she's not being fair towards you atm. 
If she hates you for demanding back your money then she isn't a good friend in my opinion. 
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Date: 18-12-2018 20:24
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BloomCissi wrote:
Escobar wrote:
Fleaur wrote:
I would just demand her to pay it back now and then not lend her money in the future. As you actually need it she needs to pay it back. 

I know, but I feel like I'm annoying or rude to constantly ask, which is why I avoid asking/reminding her all the time.
I feel like a shitty friend since I have to ask and demand, because if i had a more stable and wider economy, I would be able to just lend these money out.

It might not be a lot for some people, but it's a lot for me, since I have to pay my own meds and bills. 
I just feel so shitty and just ugh. My stomach hurts and I'm afraid that she'll hate me or get frustrated/annoyed/mad/
You don't owe anyone anything. You don't have to lend money to anyone, and you're certainly not a bad person if you don't. You have every right to demand that she pays you back. You've done her a favour by lending her money, so of course she should pay you back.
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Date: 18-12-2018 20:27
Ad0xa
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ad0xa wrote:
As a person who also has very tight economy.... there's no shame in saying "hey I realllyyy need that money back now bc -- " And if they don't pay it still and ask you another time you can just bring up that time you really needed the money and they didn't pay it back and therefor you can not give out money anymore. 
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Date: 18-12-2018 20:30
Ad0xa
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ad0xa wrote:
Fleaur wrote:
Escobar wrote:
Fleaur wrote:
I would just demand her to pay it back now and then not lend her money in the future. As you actually need it she needs to pay it back. 

I know, but I feel like I'm annoying or rude to constantly ask, which is why I avoid asking/reminding her all the time.
I feel like a shitty friend since I have to ask and demand, because if i had a more stable and wider economy, I would be able to just lend these money out.

It might not be a lot for some people, but it's a lot for me, since I have to pay my own meds and bills. 
I just feel so shitty and just ugh. My stomach hurts and I'm afraid that she'll hate me or get frustrated/annoyed/mad/
First of, you aren't annoying or rude, you were kind to lend her money and she's not being fair towards you atm. 
If she hates you for demanding back your money then she isn't a good friend in my opinion. 
also this XD 
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Date: 18-12-2018 20:30
MissLondon
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MissLondon wrote:
Man up and let her know it's necessary that you have your meds. 

I doubt she's that "forgetful"... She doesn't "forget" that you haven't always asked for repayment in the past, hence she'll continue to use you as a personal ATM until you speak up. 
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Date: 18-12-2018 20:31
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Limbs wrote:
Escobar wrote:
Fleaur wrote:
I would just demand her to pay it back now and then not lend her money in the future. As you actually need it she needs to pay it back. 

I know, but I feel like I'm annoying or rude to constantly ask, which is why I avoid asking/reminding her all the time.
I feel like a shitty friend since I have to ask and demand, because if i had a more stable and wider economy, I would be able to just lend these money out.

It might not be a lot for some people, but it's a lot for me, since I have to pay my own meds and bills. 
I just feel so shitty and just ugh. My stomach hurts and I'm afraid that she'll hate me or get frustrated/annoyed/mad/
you're not rude. you don't have any responsibility to provide for your friends' spending habits. she's the one being very rude and a shitty friend for not paying you back, and straight up ignoring it when you ask.
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Date: 18-12-2018 20:35
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denmark has mobilepay right? send her a request(if mobilepay has that feature) thats what i do
Date: 18-12-2018 20:36
Pitbull
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Pitbull wrote:
Seigfried wrote:
denmark has mobilepay right? send her a request(if mobilepay has that feature) thats what i do
We do.
Her phone literally broke (I saw it myself jus lord rip that phone) so she had to make transfers from her bank, which too forever bc she never had her "nemid" with her,
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Date: 19-12-2018 06:23
Chinchilla
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Chinchilla wrote:
ad0xa wrote:
As a person who also has very tight economy.... there's no shame in saying "hey I realllyyy need that money back now bc -- " And if they don't pay it still and ask you another time you can just bring up that time you really needed the money and they didn't pay it back and therefor you can not give out money anymore. 
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Date: 19-12-2018 06:27
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absintjente wrote:
str8 up say that u need the money u lended her for medication and then stop lending her, atleast with the expectation of getting them back
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Date: 19-12-2018 08:27
Pitbull
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Pitbull wrote:
Okay, I'm stupid.
I texted he yesterday asking her for the money and she promised me that she would fix it at the moment.
Today i had to buy my medication at the pharmacy and my card was declined. I've never felt more embarrassed and upset in my whole life. 
She promised me that she would pay me back already two days ago. 
If it wasn't from a nice old lady, I wouldn't have been able to get my medication - and i need those meds just to get out fo my bed in the morning - or just outside without being a complete mess.
Im so freaking upset right now - and I know its all my fault.
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Date: 19-12-2018 20:14
Pitbull
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Pitbull wrote:
I'm so embarrassed. 
She said that she would fix it and it's fucking annoying a kind of hurtful. 
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Date: 19-12-2018 20:19
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