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Maxwell wrote:
the worst part is u can't b like "dude I wanna die so hard bcus Im trans nd in pain" cus then they will say u r too ill to get treatment nd boom away w u
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Date: 29-01-2026 00:34
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Lamby wrote:
One hospital having a monopoly for anything sounds really scary and not in consideration of the patient at all
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Date: 29-01-2026 00:34
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Maxwell wrote:
Lamby wrote:
Maxwell wrote:
Lamby wrote:
what or who is riksen? 
hospital in norway wanting monopoly on trans ppl 
Why do they want a monopoly?
they want a monopoly on treating trans people? 

And are they denying you help because there is no M on your passport??
they dont want trans ppl 
so they want the monopoly so they can shut more trans ppl out 
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Date: 29-01-2026 00:34
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Lamby wrote:
Maxwell wrote:
Lamby wrote:
Maxwell wrote:
hospital in norway wanting monopoly on trans ppl 
Why do they want a monopoly?
they want a monopoly on treating trans people? 

And are they denying you help because there is no M on your passport??
they dont want trans ppl 
so they want the monopoly so they can shut more trans ppl out 
That is a very weird way to go about it :/ that sucks, sorry to hear
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Date: 29-01-2026 00:35
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Lamby wrote:
Is it not possible to show them proof of you already being socially transitioned or do they really only take passports etc?

It feels so backwards too because wouldn't it make more sense to change your passport/id after fully transitioning? So why do they want this beforehand..


I know you already told my why though, it does seem like they don't have your best interest at heart
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Date: 29-01-2026 00:37
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Maxwell wrote:
Lamby wrote:
Is it not possible to show them proof of you already being socially transitioned or do they really only take passports etc?

It feels so backwards too because wouldn't it make more sense to change your passport/id after fully transitioning? So why do they want this beforehand..


I know you already told my why though, it does seem like they don't have your best interest at heart
I can be lucky, let us c what happens in february
but I do have a feeling that bcus I haven't changed gender in government nor legal name, they r gonna take it as I am not serious enough. So I am rdy to fight them!! Cus I've lived life as samuel fully for 2 years!! so what if my ID don't say it who cares abt them I just want smokes omg??

yes I have the same stand Im like I feel more comfy changing that legal stuff AFTER I've started medically transitioning bcus I kno puttin samuel on there rn w he/him thye r litrally gonna think it is fake hello?? 
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Date: 29-01-2026 00:41
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devilcake wrote:
Maxwell wrote:
Lamby wrote:
Is it not possible to show them proof of you already being socially transitioned or do they really only take passports etc?

It feels so backwards too because wouldn't it make more sense to change your passport/id after fully transitioning? So why do they want this beforehand..


I know you already told my why though, it does seem like they don't have your best interest at heart
I can be lucky, let us c what happens in february
but I do have a feeling that bcus I haven't changed gender in government nor legal name, they r gonna take it as I am not serious enough. So I am rdy to fight them!! Cus I've lived life as samuel fully for 2 years!! so what if my ID don't say it who cares abt them I just want smokes omg??

yes I have the same stand Im like I feel more comfy changing that legal stuff AFTER I've started medically transitioning bcus I kno puttin samuel on there rn w he/him thye r litrally gonna think it is fake hello?? 
You guys change your legal gender before dysphoria diagnosis n medical transition that’s crazy coz we had to have those things before we could change legal gender up until last summer 😭
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Date: 29-01-2026 00:48
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Maxwell wrote:
devilcake wrote:
Maxwell wrote:
Lamby wrote:
Is it not possible to show them proof of you already being socially transitioned or do they really only take passports etc?

It feels so backwards too because wouldn't it make more sense to change your passport/id after fully transitioning? So why do they want this beforehand..


I know you already told my why though, it does seem like they don't have your best interest at heart
I can be lucky, let us c what happens in february
but I do have a feeling that bcus I haven't changed gender in government nor legal name, they r gonna take it as I am not serious enough. So I am rdy to fight them!! Cus I've lived life as samuel fully for 2 years!! so what if my ID don't say it who cares abt them I just want smokes omg??

yes I have the same stand Im like I feel more comfy changing that legal stuff AFTER I've started medically transitioning bcus I kno puttin samuel on there rn w he/him thye r litrally gonna think it is fake hello?? 
You guys change your legal gender before dysphoria diagnosis n medical transition that’s crazy coz we had to have those things before we could change legal gender up until last summer 😭
nordic countries r so progressiiiiive!!
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Date: 29-01-2026 00:48
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Maxwell wrote:
when it wasnt until 2016 that ppl cud change legal gender without sterilizing themselves aaahhahhahha
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Date: 29-01-2026 00:50
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Maxwell wrote:
fuck my stupid chungus liiiife...
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Date: 29-01-2026 00:51
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devilcake wrote:
Really press on all the places you are out in like, say you’re out to everyone you know, that you introduce yourself as Samuel to every person you meet and that you’re out at work and lost like every other setting you might be in even if it’s small….

i remember at some point I was asked about living as my gender type thing and I said yes I’m out to everyone and introduce myself as me yadda yadda but not at work because I’m quitting soon and my mom works there so I’m gonna do all that after I quit but literally everywhere else and when I studied abroad etcetc

and the lady was like …. I c you are not living as your gender at all and you’re deeply in the closet but it’s okay somempeople want to wait a little with that 🥰 
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Date: 29-01-2026 00:54
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Maxwell wrote:
devilcake wrote:
Really press on all the places you are out in like, say you’re out to everyone you know, that you introduce yourself as Samuel to every person you meet and that you’re out at work and lost like every other setting you might be in even if it’s small….

i remember at some point I was asked about living as my gender type thing and I said yes I’m out to everyone and introduce myself as me yadda yadda but not at work because I’m quitting soon and my mom works there so I’m gonna do all that after I quit but literally everywhere else and when I studied abroad etcetc

and the lady was like …. I c you are not living as your gender at all and you’re deeply in the closet but it’s okay somempeople want to wait a little with that 🥰 
goodness it rlly is
like talkin to a wall innit
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Date: 29-01-2026 00:57
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devilcake wrote:
You could also maybe say that a lot of people read you as male too so it’s just part of your every day life and it feels very natural when they do etcetc
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Date: 29-01-2026 00:57
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devilcake wrote:
Maxwell wrote:
devilcake wrote:
Really press on all the places you are out in like, say you’re out to everyone you know, that you introduce yourself as Samuel to every person you meet and that you’re out at work and lost like every other setting you might be in even if it’s small….

i remember at some point I was asked about living as my gender type thing and I said yes I’m out to everyone and introduce myself as me yadda yadda but not at work because I’m quitting soon and my mom works there so I’m gonna do all that after I quit but literally everywhere else and when I studied abroad etcetc

and the lady was like …. I c you are not living as your gender at all and you’re deeply in the closet but it’s okay somempeople want to wait a little with that 🥰 
goodness it rlly is
like talkin to a wall innit
Im so happy the psych I got for the rest of my eval was a younger queer person bc everyone else was like the most stupid person I had ever spoken to…
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Date: 29-01-2026 00:58
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devilcake wrote:
Also idk how it’s with yall but since we change personal id number with out gender it’s like a HUGE hassle with paperwork so maybe you could mention something like that being the reason, like oh I haven’t changed name and gender yet because I’m planning on moving out(or changing jobs or travel or whatever else requires identification) soon and I don’t want to make it more stressful / risk things getting messed up because of it
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Date: 29-01-2026 01:02
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