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The previous ex but now boyfriend diary
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tequilasunrise wrote:
Escobar wrote:
Thanks for all the kind words.
Idk, I feel like im just a massive crybaby. Like I believe sometimes it' my fault or Im overreacting, or just plain sensitive...that's at least that what he says
of course thats what he says
bc he knows how much power he has over you and how to make you feel like he's the only one who will stay with you despite 'overreacting' and being 'sensitive' (which is complete bullshit, there are a lot of people in the world you will accept you the way you are and who don't need to downplay you like that)
sounds manipulative as shitĀ 
he's discrediting your feelings, making you feel like he's not saying hurtful shit but that you're the problem by reacting that way
you are allowed to feel any type of way and your feelings are completely valid
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Date: 13-08-2020 11:17
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Pitbull wrote:
tequilasunrise wrote:
Escobar wrote:
Thanks for all the kind words.
Idk, I feel like im just a massive crybaby. Like I believe sometimes it' my fault or Im overreacting, or just plain sensitive...that's at least that what he says
of course thats what he says
bc he knows how much power he has over you and how to make you feel like he's the only one who will stay with you despite 'overreacting' and being 'sensitive' (which is complete bullshit, there are a lot of people in the world you will accept you the way you are and who don't need to downplay you like that)
sounds manipulative as shitĀ 
he's discrediting your feelings, making you feel like he's not saying hurtful shit but that you're the problem by reacting that way
you are allowed to feel any type of way and your feelings are completely valid
idk i just feel like i cant live without him.
Like genuine, nobody would love me besides him since i have a lot of mental illnessesĀ 
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Date: 13-08-2020 19:19
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Sofia wrote:
Girl there are people out there who will treat you 100000 times better than that I promise you. I have some mental illnesses as well, of course I don't know much about yours and it's not to compare at all sweets, but someone will love you properly and not do all the things he's done to you. I promise there's someone out there who can do it much better!!! I'm sorry that all those things happened, it really doesn't sound nice at all ā˜¹ā˜¹ā¤
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Date: 13-08-2020 19:24
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Pitbull wrote:
lol i hate men ahahha

im srsly considering adopting a cat or more guinea pigsĀ 
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Date: 28-08-2020 18:12
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rottomilko wrote:
that man sounds toxic and manipulative afĀ 
so many red flags

i know it's hard to let go when u r so attached to someone in that way
and it might feel like hell for a while
but you are better of without him

he's gonna drag u more and more down
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Date: 28-08-2020 18:23
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Pitbull wrote:
Melk wrote:
that man sounds toxic and manipulative afĀ 
so many red flags

i know it's hard to let go when u r so attached to someone in that way
and it might feel like hell for a while
but you are better of without him

he's gonna drag u more and more down
idk he's getting a bit better rn
i just think he needs help with it
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Date: 28-08-2020 18:26
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I promise that your mental health problems will not get better when you stay with him. You will get more traumas when you're staying with him.
he absolutely needs help, but you can't help him if you can't help even yourself atm. He is not an asshole, ofc he have good things too. But he still can be shitty for you.
I think that you want to speak about that to someone is great
Date: 28-08-2020 18:34
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rottomilko wrote:
Escobar wrote:
Melk wrote:
that man sounds toxic and manipulative afĀ 
so many red flags

i know it's hard to let go when u r so attached to someone in that way
and it might feel like hell for a while
but you are better of without him

he's gonna drag u more and more down
idk he's getting a bit better rn
i just think he needs help with it
this is basically making an excuse for his behavior. try and not make excuses for him for a while and see how far u get.
and it's not your job or responsibility to fix him or help him get better
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Date: 28-08-2020 18:37
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rottomilko wrote:
28th august:
Bailed on another plan bc a friend wanted to co to the bars, bc it was her birthday a few days ago. I don't feel confident enough since he told me I was boring to party/drink with or embarrassing to be around when I was drunk.
I am now crying.
u literally wrote "he's starting to get better", but u posted this today

is is a major red flag, he doesn't respect u
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Date: 28-08-2020 18:40
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rottomilko wrote:
idk if anything i write will help u realize things in any way
i've been deep deep in a relationship with a manipulative person and i sure didn't listen to anyone when they told me he was bad. i made so many excuses for him and his behavior and it took me a long time to realize i had to get out of there

try to find a support system, like people u can go to when u have a bad time
and try to believe that your own mental health and well being is more important than anything or anyone else
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Date: 28-08-2020 18:46
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Sofia wrote:
Melk wrote:
28th august:
Bailed on another plan bc a friend wanted to co to the bars, bc it was her birthday a few days ago. I don't feel confident enough since he told me I was boring to party/drink with or embarrassing to be around when I was drunk.
I am now crying.
u literally wrote "he's starting to get better", but u posted this today

is is a major red flag, he doesn't respect u
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Date: 28-08-2020 18:49
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Limbs wrote:
Escobar wrote:
Melk wrote:
that man sounds toxic and manipulative afĀ 
so many red flags

i know it's hard to let go when u r so attached to someone in that way
and it might feel like hell for a while
but you are better of without him

he's gonna drag u more and more down
idk he's getting a bit better rn
i just think he needs help with it
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Date: 28-08-2020 18:57
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beholder wrote:
Escobar wrote:
Thanks for all the kind words.
Idk, I feel like im just a massive crybaby. Like I believe sometimes it' my fault or Im overreacting, or just plain sensitive...that's at least that what he says
oh no, fuck that. i AM a sensitive person, i can tell you that. but my bf knows that and checks in on me, rather than just insist i'm being too sensitiveĀ  ?? plus him blaming you and saying you're overreacting is invalidating your feelings and i don't like that.Ā 
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Date: 28-08-2020 19:18
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beholder wrote:
Escobar wrote:
Thanks for all the kind words.
Idk, I feel like im just a massive crybaby. Like I believe sometimes it' my fault or Im overreacting, or just plain sensitive...that's at least that what he says
oh no, fuck that. i AM a sensitive person, i can tell you that. but my bf knows that and checks in on me, rather than just insist i'm being too sensitiveĀ  ?? plus him blaming you and saying you're overreacting is invalidating your feelings and i don't like that.Ā 

yes
Date: 28-08-2020 19:44
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Sofia wrote:
beholder wrote:
Escobar wrote:
Thanks for all the kind words.
Idk, I feel like im just a massive crybaby. Like I believe sometimes it' my fault or Im overreacting, or just plain sensitive...that's at least that what he says
oh no, fuck that. i AM a sensitive person, i can tell you that. but my bf knows that and checks in on me, rather than just insist i'm being too sensitiveĀ  ?? plus him blaming you and saying you're overreacting is invalidating your feelings and i don't like that.Ā 
Exactly
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Date: 28-08-2020 19:45
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