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Tw It's hard to talk about your feelings
Sylvan
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about pregnancy and children without offending people

I know this topic is so 2015,but it gets shoved in my face so often and I still can't deal with it really 
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Agreed.. I do not want kids at all, but my boyfriend really wants to (in like 6 yrs or so) and i'm just praying I can change my mind until then :-( 

Id love to have a family. Its just so much to commit to and taking care of myself is more than enough tbh
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How do you feel abt it? If thats something you wanna share ofc
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i don't want kids but my parents want grandkids and i feel like shit but also i can barely take care of myself so,,
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Yeah, it's well.....
a hard topic
especially with couples that date and well have different opinions and feelings about the topic
like I have a partner that WORKS with kids and wants to have 2 at LEAST so they won't be lonely and then there's me that hated kids all her life and believes that she'll be a horrible mother

ALTHOUGH he did make me see it in a bit of a different light I am still pretty much sure I don't actually want em but well, or don't know? I really don't know

I stopped giving a fuck about other people telling me the 100+ reasons as to why I'm wrong to not want them, and I'm just telling them that I will not answer them and ignore them if they keep talking about this topic.
great way to filter people you want in your life, the trash will get so upset that they'll make a scene about it or do something dumb, other people will understand and try not to talk about it with you if they respect you
Sylvan
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Mime wrote:
How do you feel abt it? If thats something you wanna share ofc
Okay, it is a very strong opinion and my personal opinion (!!!)
Basically imagening myself pregnant makes me dysphoric as fuck and I have nightmares of my body going through it and I think bringing a child in this fucked up world is something you should be sure of before you do it, because we are overpopulated and who knows how the world is gonna look in 40 years. 
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i feel like it's not that difficult if you talk about how you feel n don't generalize that into like, universal statements. e.g. "i don't like kids" vs. "kids are awful". except if you're antinatalist, then yeah, p unavoidable that people will be offended
Sylvan
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Limbs wrote:
i feel like it's not that difficult if you talk about how you feel n don't generalize that into like, universal statements. e.g. "i don't like kids" vs. "kids are awful". except if you're antinatalist, then yeah, p unavoidable that people will be offended
I'm not like no one should ever have kids but fewer ppl should have them bc as I mentioned overpopulation bad and it shouldn't be normal to expect that someone wants to have kids, like so many people in relationships just assume that without asking their partner. 

Also kids aren't awful but they aren't miracles or the most important thing either, I think a bit more realism would prevent a lot of people from ending up in unhappy dysfunctional families. 
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i haven't found people get offended, but fucking annoying. like my friend (who got preganant by accident and kept it) once gave me a lecture that i can't understand what is like when you realise you carry a life inside of you and if i ever get pregnant i surely couldn't put myself to do an abortion
well that i do not and i'm verry happy if i'll never know, but i'm fine with the idea of abortion if that comes to that because i literally do not care
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I haven’t met anyone who was 
offended by my choice
only those who try to make
me feel guilty over it🤷🏾‍♀️
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Sylvan wrote:
Limbs wrote:
i feel like it's not that difficult if you talk about how you feel n don't generalize that into like, universal statements. e.g. "i don't like kids" vs. "kids are awful". except if you're antinatalist, then yeah, p unavoidable that people will be offended
I'm not like no one should ever have kids but fewer ppl should have them bc as I mentioned overpopulation bad and it shouldn't be normal to expect that someone wants to have kids, like so many people in relationships just assume that without asking their partner. 

Also kids aren't awful but they aren't miracles or the most important thing either, I think a bit more realism would prevent a lot of people from ending up in unhappy dysfunctional families. 
yeah i totally agree. and i say this as someone who loves kids, so idk why people would be getting offended :/ i just get mad when ppl dehumanize kids
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Yeah but also I'm basically antinatalist so it is ok if ppl get offended, to each their own I understand it
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