Sylvan wrote:Limbs wrote:
i feel like it's not that difficult if you talk about how you feel n don't generalize that into like, universal statements. e.g. "i don't like kids" vs. "kids are awful". except if you're antinatalist, then yeah, p unavoidable that people will be offended
I'm not like no one should ever have kids but fewer ppl should have them bc as I mentioned overpopulation bad and it shouldn't be normal to expect that someone wants to have kids, like so many people in relationships just assume that without asking their partner.
Also kids aren't awful but they aren't miracles or the most important thing either, I think a bit more realism would prevent a lot of people from ending up in unhappy dysfunctional families.
yeah i totally agree. and i say this as someone who loves kids, so idk why people would be getting offended :/ i just get mad when ppl dehumanize kids