remains wrote:
i've grown past my teenage validation craving self pity phase and i have absolutely zero patience to entertain anyone else's, let alone an adult woman's. i wish you didn't feel the need to constantly ask if people hate you and i wish you were doing better in your life, but it seems to be pathological and it makes me sad. if you actually participated in the community instead of trying to use it for self validation, i wouldnt feel the need to comment on it.
/gen