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lil sis break up aftermath
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Sylvan wrote:
My sister's bf of 5 years broke up with her for the most stupid reason and I'm trying to keep my mouth shut bc I told her that I don't like him and I don't trust him exactly 2 years ago, shortly before they moved in together.

I feel like a shit person because this is the first thing that comes 2 my mind and I didn't say anything when she announced it but oufff he is such a shit head, I wanna send him poop through the mail. 

update: I kept my mouth shut, she moved back in to my parents yesterday and brought a shit ton of stuff.

I'm a lil overwhelmed.

Update 2 (last update):

Shithead has a new girlfriend, my dad  (he always goes for a walk on his lunch break and shithead lives in the neighborhood of my dad's place of work) saw her car 4 weeks ago in front of his house and now he officially announced it (l bet they already met before he broke it off lol).

She drives the same car as my sister and even has the same first name (with a k not a c but still)

She is older and has a kid and drinks a lot, allegedly. Glad my sister dodged that bullet.
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Date: 05-09-2022 19:40 | Times changed: 2
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ouch wrote:
Lol I did the same to my sister, told her her bf was hella stupid, mean and shitty,and that they should break up, she didn't break up, then they broke up and I told her I said so hello he was horrible lol, and she agreed yes that she was stupid for not breaking up earlier
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Date: 05-09-2022 19:46
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Sylvan wrote:
No but this is a put the whole man in the garbage situation bc this fucker had the audacity to break up with her because he doesn't see a future if she keeps nagging about him drinking a beer sometimes.. (aka him being blackout drunk at least once a week and drinking every day, him staying behind with his friends while she had to walk 5km home in the dark drunk,...)

As of it isn't reasonable to be concerned if your bf is drunk all the time.... 
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Date: 05-09-2022 19:49
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wug wrote:
Sylvan wrote:
No but this is a put the whole man in the garbage situation bc this fucker had the audacity to break up with her because he doesn't see a future if she keeps nagging about him drinking a beer sometimes.. (aka him being blackout drunk at least once a week and drinking every day, him staying behind with his friends while she had to walk 5km home in the dark drunk,...)

As of it isn't reasonable to be concerned if your bf is drunk all the time.... 
well fair dumping someone over not seeing a future with them it's a shittier move to stay together while thinking that it's not going to last anyway
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Date: 05-09-2022 19:50
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ouch wrote:
Sylvan wrote:
No but this is a put the whole man in the garbage situation bc this fucker had the audacity to break up with her because he doesn't see a future if she keeps nagging about him drinking a beer sometimes.. (aka him being blackout drunk at least once a week and drinking every day, him staying behind with his friends while she had to walk 5km home in the dark drunk,...)

As of it isn't reasonable to be concerned if your bf is drunk all the time.... 
reasonable to get concerned but I would probably break up too if I got a gf who didn't agree w my drinking habits and I didn't want to stop drinking
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Date: 05-09-2022 19:51
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Sylvan wrote:
Klasifikovany wrote:
Sylvan wrote:
No but this is a put the whole man in the garbage situation bc this fucker had the audacity to break up with her because he doesn't see a future if she keeps nagging about him drinking a beer sometimes.. (aka him being blackout drunk at least once a week and drinking every day, him staying behind with his friends while she had to walk 5km home in the dark drunk,...)

As of it isn't reasonable to be concerned if your bf is drunk all the time.... 
well fair dumping someone over not seeing a future with them it's a shittier move to stay together while thinking that it's not going to last anyway
Throwing away 5 years and a flat they own together because your partner is concerned for your well being is so fucking childish. 

He still owes her 25k for built in furniture and other stuff so she is mega hella pissed because he is too broke to pay her. 
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Date: 05-09-2022 19:54
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Rouya wrote:
Sylvan wrote:
Klasifikovany wrote:
Sylvan wrote:
No but this is a put the whole man in the garbage situation bc this fucker had the audacity to break up with her because he doesn't see a future if she keeps nagging about him drinking a beer sometimes.. (aka him being blackout drunk at least once a week and drinking every day, him staying behind with his friends while she had to walk 5km home in the dark drunk,...)

As of it isn't reasonable to be concerned if your bf is drunk all the time.... 
well fair dumping someone over not seeing a future with them it's a shittier move to stay together while thinking that it's not going to last anyway
Throwing away 5 years and a flat they own together because your partner is concerned for your well being is so fucking childish. 

He still owes her 25k for built in furniture and other stuff so she is mega hella pissed because he is too broke to pay her. 
very childish indeed but also if hes not planning on doing anything about his drinking problem, then fair enough that he breaks up with her, when she wants him to stop drinking. and also good for her that he's out of her life, doesnt sound like he was gonna change anyway
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Date: 05-09-2022 19:55
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ouch wrote:
Sylvan wrote:
Klasifikovany wrote:
Sylvan wrote:
No but this is a put the whole man in the garbage situation bc this fucker had the audacity to break up with her because he doesn't see a future if she keeps nagging about him drinking a beer sometimes.. (aka him being blackout drunk at least once a week and drinking every day, him staying behind with his friends while she had to walk 5km home in the dark drunk,...)

As of it isn't reasonable to be concerned if your bf is drunk all the time.... 
well fair dumping someone over not seeing a future with them it's a shittier move to stay together while thinking that it's not going to last anyway
Throwing away 5 years and a flat they own together because your partner is concerned for your well being is so fucking childish. 

He still owes her 25k for built in furniture and other stuff so she is mega hella pissed because he is too broke to pay her. 
He sounds liek an alcoholic tho, and it might be too stressful for him to stay in the relationship if shee is nagging on him because he has a disease, and even if he would want to stop drinking, its not that easy, and especially not that easy if she is nagging or being overly concerned

lol

good for him they broke up, good for her they broke up 
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Date: 05-09-2022 19:57
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wug wrote:
Sylvan wrote:
Klasifikovany wrote:
Sylvan wrote:
No but this is a put the whole man in the garbage situation bc this fucker had the audacity to break up with her because he doesn't see a future if she keeps nagging about him drinking a beer sometimes.. (aka him being blackout drunk at least once a week and drinking every day, him staying behind with his friends while she had to walk 5km home in the dark drunk,...)

As of it isn't reasonable to be concerned if your bf is drunk all the time.... 
well fair dumping someone over not seeing a future with them it's a shittier move to stay together while thinking that it's not going to last anyway
Throwing away 5 years and a flat they own together because your partner is concerned for your well being is so fucking childish. 

He still owes her 25k for built in furniture and other stuff so she is mega hella pissed because he is too broke to pay her. 
Yeah, but if there's no future in it there is no future in it, other factors doesn't matter. People with children divorce all the time, if it isn't working it isn't working, no matter how petty or childish it might seem. 
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Date: 05-09-2022 19:57
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MissLondon wrote:
Sounds as if he did her
a favor by not taking her down 
with him or leaving her with a kid
I would be grateful
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Date: 05-09-2022 19:59
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Sylvan wrote:
ouch wrote:
Sylvan wrote:
Klasifikovany wrote:
well fair dumping someone over not seeing a future with them it's a shittier move to stay together while thinking that it's not going to last anyway
Throwing away 5 years and a flat they own together because your partner is concerned for your well being is so fucking childish. 

He still owes her 25k for built in furniture and other stuff so she is mega hella pissed because he is too broke to pay her. 
He sounds liek an alcoholic tho, and it might be too stressful for him to stay in the relationship if shee is nagging on him because he has a disease, and even if he would want to stop drinking, its not that easy, and especially not that easy if she is nagging or being overly concerned

lol

good for him they broke up, good for her they broke up 
She wasn't nagging, she told him she was concerned.
Tbh I'm glad she and he are history but the circumstances suck and I feel sorry for her because it's been 5 years after all. 
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Date: 05-09-2022 20:01
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devilcake wrote:
i waited like, a year or so after my besties breakup before i went all "i knew he would turn out to be a dickwad the moment i saw him" n by then she could kinda laugh about it too
theres a time n a place etc
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Date: 05-09-2022 20:02
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ouch wrote:
Sylvan wrote:
ouch wrote:
Sylvan wrote:
Throwing away 5 years and a flat they own together because your partner is concerned for your well being is so fucking childish. 

He still owes her 25k for built in furniture and other stuff so she is mega hella pissed because he is too broke to pay her. 
He sounds liek an alcoholic tho, and it might be too stressful for him to stay in the relationship if shee is nagging on him because he has a disease, and even if he would want to stop drinking, its not that easy, and especially not that easy if she is nagging or being overly concerned

lol

good for him they broke up, good for her they broke up 
She wasn't nagging, she told him she was concerned.
Tbh I'm glad she and he are history but the circumstances suck and I feel sorry for her because it's been 5 years after all. 
Yes but ppl change, one cant consider the time one has been together as something worth staying for. Mby its been a good 5 years, mby its been a bad 5 years, either way its over and the time spent together doesn't impact anything really. Its not wasted time or whatever some ppl would classify it as. 
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Date: 05-09-2022 20:03
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Sylvan wrote:
devilcake wrote:
i waited like, a year or so after my besties breakup before i went all "i knew he would turn out to be a dickwad the moment i saw him" n by then she could kinda laugh about it too
theres a time n a place etc
She knew I didn't like him because he is a racist, homophobic, transphobic idiot who threw around slurs like it was nothing and tbh I'm still pissed she didn't value me enough to have a serious problem with his views but I still intend to keep my mouth shut.

It's hard tho
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Date: 05-09-2022 20:06
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Evey wrote:
love makes you see things less clearly and just like you would like to have demanded more from your sister in her previous choices, try to demand more understanding from yourself and focusing on trying to support her through this big change. one could argue that you can't change how you feel, and you can't really change someone who doesn't want to change either.

i don't know the relationship between you but that would be my general advice
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Date: 05-09-2022 20:12
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MissLondon wrote:
Sylvan wrote:
devilcake wrote:
i waited like, a year or so after my besties breakup before i went all "i knew he would turn out to be a dickwad the moment i saw him" n by then she could kinda laugh about it too
theres a time n a place etc
She knew I didn't like him because he is a racist, homophobic, transphobic idiot who threw around slurs like it was nothing and tbh I'm still pissed she didn't value me enough to have a serious problem with his views but I still intend to keep my mouth shut.

It's hard tho
Maybe it was the 🍆  lol
I wouldn’t waste a year
with anyone who’s broke/poor
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