Snakkes wrote:Snakkes wrote:
i can relate to this. i'm pan, but sometimes i only am attracted to men, then for a month or two i'll only like women. then other times, i will be equally attracted to both, or neither. i have weeks where i feel totally asexual and only attracted to people platonically! like what
it's such a strange thing. it just will fluctuate without reason. but i guess sexuality is meant to be fluid (and unreasonably confusing?? lol)
but ik this isn't exactly the same thing, and to answer your question, imo i think there's no need to put a label on it at all, especially if you're unsure. there's no pressure to be called gay or not, esp nowadays since people are a lot more openminded than they used to be
true. it's less wanting a label and more not wanting to keep getting involved with guys if that's not something I'm into. like I don't want to waste mine or their time. Not sure how I'm ever supposed to figure this out tho