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is this a good apology letter??
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Streetmusician



write the letter for urself, n then dont send it 
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GENOS wrote:
UFDGJFKKJ now i dont know whether i should send it or not

okay okay so the thing that happened was:

this person was an artist that was a bit populair and i had a twitter account where i could talk to them and talk to people who liked the artist's music. this artist knew my name, age, checked my tweets and sometimes talked to me. but at some point i said some pretty hurtful stuff to them and that i was gonna leave them and never listen to their music again and how im done with it yada yada and this person was hurt pretty bad and sad and angry which is very understandable 

and i feel really stupid and silly but i cant stop thinking about it and i really want them to know im truly sorry
Based on what you're saying I wouldn't send that apology, period. 
They were still technically a stranger to you and it will likely only confuse them or upset them more if you send an apology. I doubt they even remember what happened.
We all make mistakes and say hurtful things online to people. We can't take those things back, but we can use those moments to grow as a person. 
What you did wasn't good, but it's been 4 years. I'm sure you've grown somewhat from that time in your life. You're never the same person you were the year before so you definitely aren't the same person you were 4 years ago. 

If atonement is important to you do so in healthy ways. Maybe support more artists and lift them up.
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Princess of Pop



don’t apologize from what you did 6 years ago or less. 
if it was recently, then yes, but this is many years ago.
GENOS
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thank for your opinions guys
im not gonna send it
Kino
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yeah idk if anyone that did me wrong sent me a message like that i’d 1) be very happy they still think about me, 2) be terrified because they still think about me, 3) depending on my relationship with them i’d either be: super flattered and thank them OR i would think they did it just to clear their conscience and end up hating them for a little while before, ultimately, forgetting about it again
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Don't send, but do yourself the favor of writing it for yourself, and then write out everything you wish you said and then decide that it's time to put it behind you. You made a mistake, now you know how to do better. And making mistakes is fine and there are so many places in your life that this isn't relevant so it doesn't make you a bad person or anything. It's okay. You can let it go.  
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