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Kit
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Kit wrote:
acidreflux wrote:
Kit wrote:
acidreflux wrote:
i had the same problem w someone in a discord server, she was a real fucking mess and would accuse everyone at hating her and talking behind her back, just to twist around and say she wanted to die and leave suicide notes in the general channel.

and then everyone would fawn over her and be like "no don't kys you're so sexy ahaa" 
yea gjfksld that sounds . Messy 
at least my friend rly only pulls this shit w me and not w a bunch of ppl omg
and she did atleast 3 times a week. i just ignored it, because well, she was never gonna do it and she just wanted attention. 
yeah its just like. idk if she were doing this in a group chat i'd feel better about ignoring her bc then it's not all on me i guess ? but rn it's like. i know i'm pretty much the only person she talks to about these things , especially like this, and idk it just feels like if i don't respond she'll feel completely alone and abandoned and just like . hurt herself anyway

idk when me nd our other friend were both gone for like a week and a half i came back and she's just like "well i'm glad i didnt self harm that whole time im proud of me" and on the one hand ? great ? 

on the other hand "if you go on vacation for a week i'll probably hurt myself" is uhhh. fucking insane
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Date: 28-08-2020 17:33
Saudade
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Saudade wrote:
Kit wrote:
Saudade wrote:
Does she see anyone about these feelings?
her therapist moved like 2 months ago and i don't think she's seeing anyone new ... 
It's not up to you to be her therapist then. If she won't get help again, then don't feel obliged to always be there for her, look after your own mental health first! 
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Date: 28-08-2020 17:36
Kit
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Kit wrote:
and uhhh hhhhh eah this whole situation has me feeling really awful and uh

i also have no one to talk to about it bc i have One other friend and he's gone, and my mom is working rn

nd yeah i can imagine she's feeling quite a bit like im feeling rn and i wouldn't wish that on anyone and i wish that i could actually help her or just like. listen to her and b a decent fucking person bc if i can't do that for her then how the fuck should i expect anyone to do it for me and uh 
yeah fuck 

but what the fuck man . what the fuck 
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Date: 28-08-2020 17:37
Kit
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Kit wrote:
Saudade wrote:
Kit wrote:
Saudade wrote:
Does she see anyone about these feelings?
her therapist moved like 2 months ago and i don't think she's seeing anyone new ... 
It's not up to you to be her therapist then. If she won't get help again, then don't feel obliged to always be there for her, look after your own mental health first! 
thank u , ur right : ( idk i honestly hadn't even thought abt it but i think the best thing i cn do for her rn is to try and encourage her to find a new therapist bc it seems like she's doing a lot worse now that she's stopped
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Date: 28-08-2020 17:39
Saudade
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Saudade wrote:
I don't think its fair on them to even say oh glad I didn't s/h while you were gone ... does she not realise how that can make someone feel? You shouldn't have to always worry about them! Of course be there for them when you can but when it gets too much you really just have to be honest with her. It sounds super emotionally manipulative to even say such things to someone she considers a friend. :L I'm sorry you have to deal with that at all, you know I am always here for a chat if you need it
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Date: 28-08-2020 17:39
Saudade
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Saudade wrote:
Kit wrote:
Saudade wrote:
Kit wrote:
her therapist moved like 2 months ago and i don't think she's seeing anyone new ... 
It's not up to you to be her therapist then. If she won't get help again, then don't feel obliged to always be there for her, look after your own mental health first! 
thank u , ur right : ( idk i honestly hadn't even thought abt it but i think the best thing i cn do for her rn is to try and encourage her to find a new therapist bc it seems like she's doing a lot worse now that she's stopped
100% ! I think helping her towards goals like seeing a therapist, and maybe if she isn't already diagnosed for depression or maybe even bpd (because I think from the sounds of things she might have it) and other stuff, rather than always being there to listen, it may be more helpful for both of you to just get her genuine professional help, because this isn't a weight you should have to carry at all!
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Date: 28-08-2020 17:41
Kit
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Kit wrote:
Saudade wrote:
I don't think its fair on them to even say oh glad I didn't s/h while you were gone ... does she not realise how that can make someone feel? You shouldn't have to always worry about them! Of course be there for them when you can but when it gets too much you really just have to be honest with her. It sounds super emotionally manipulative to even say such things to someone she considers a friend. :L I'm sorry you have to deal with that at all, you know I am always here for a chat if you need it

jgkdsfjsl thank you honestly i . felt like an asshole even thinking "wow thts a fucked up thing to say" but ur right it was fucked up 

ur an angel tho honestly thank u . i rly needed a lil reassurance nd i honestly feel a lot better
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Date: 28-08-2020 17:46 | Times changed: 1
Saudade
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Saudade wrote:
Kit wrote:
Saudade wrote:
I don't think its fair on them to even say oh glad I didn't s/h while you were gone ... does she not realise how that can make someone feel? You shouldn't have to always worry about them! Of course be there for them when you can but when it gets too much you really just have to be honest with her. It sounds super emotionally manipulative to even say such things to someone she considers a friend. :L I'm sorry you have to deal with that at all, you know I am always here for a chat if you need it

jgkdsfjsl thank you honestly i . felt like an asshole even thinking "wow thts a fucked up thing to say" but ur right it was fucked up 
Totally not an asshole thing to think because it is fucked up bro 
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Date: 28-08-2020 17:47
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