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vp ruining my friendships lmao
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GenderTeam wrote:
ooh i relate my friends sometimes bring up me designing for this site

n they like compliment my designs to embarrass me i guess (or dats how it feels like)
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Date: 22-10-2020 13:30
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Versailles wrote:
damn that's r00de and annoying, vp is fun. Tell her to stop mocking/bullying u
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Date: 22-10-2020 13:42
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Kit wrote:
MossPiglet wrote:
damn that's r00de and annoying, vp is fun. Tell her to stop mocking/bullying u
nooo mhkljklxcvl ike she's trying 2 be supportive / show interest in my interests or whatever its just ! like its weird and ineffective bc ? its not something i am actively sharing with her or want to share ? its not something that is even like .... there's literally nothing to say abt vp. im not even on vp that much except when i need a place to whine abt her. like

idk it's just a lil uncomfortable that she's trying so hard to "show interest" in something that i really haven't wanted to share n just. feels like she's trying to perform "good friendship" but it just comes across as kinda weird and like. idk its uncomf. for me that she just texts out of the blue like "hows ur dress up game going!" when i didn't bring it up and she doesnt know thats what im even doing and. idk

also last week or so like. called me out for playing stardew valley (she cld see i was on steam) instead of hanging out w her and is like. we hang out every day of the week let me fucking live. idk its just a bit much ig and it feels like too much attention thought etc. is being put on me IDK MAN its just uncomfortable
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Date: 22-10-2020 13:54
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relatable.
my parents used to make fun of me playing gSm like the whole time I was playing, like "Are you playing that dressup game (kjolespillet)," haven't you grown out of it yet? what's even the fun about it? etc. etc. long story short, I never tell them what I do on my laptop. All my time on a laptop is named "I'm not doing anything, what is it?" - even tho I am doing things that are important\fun to me that they never will acknowledge as being important\fun. so my dad noticed i was playing this game a few weeks ago and was like "is that kjolespillet?" i was like "No it's not. it's similar but like a worse version of it" and shut down the conversation. 


idk how much is being said already, but i would just send her a clear message and state your boundaries. like leave the "idk" in the edits and just write it matteroffactly like ' this is how it is.  please respect that.'  
Date: 22-10-2020 13:54 | Times changed: 1
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Kit wrote:
im being so whiny ik its just . weird ig
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Date: 22-10-2020 13:55
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Versailles wrote:
Kit wrote:
MossPiglet wrote:
damn that's r00de and annoying, vp is fun. Tell her to stop mocking/bullying u
nooo mhkljklxcvl ike she's trying 2 be supportive / show interest in my interests or whatever its just ! like its weird and ineffective bc ? its not something i am actively sharing with her or want to share ? its not something that is even like .... there's literally nothing to say abt vp. im not even on vp that much except when i need a place to whine abt her. like

idk it's just a lil uncomfortable that she's trying so hard to "show interest" in something that i really haven't wanted to share n just. feels like she's trying to perform "good friendship" but it just comes across as kinda weird and like. idk its uncomf. for me that she just texts out of the blue like "hows ur dress up game going!" when i didn't bring it up and she doesnt know thats what im even doing and. idk

also last week or so like. called me out for playing stardew valley (she cld see i was on steam) instead of hanging out w her and is like. we hang out every day of the week let me fucking live. idk its just a bit much ig and it feels like too much attention thought etc. is being put on me IDK MAN its just uncomfortable

Ya I see that, you can say it's a bit wonky/uncomfy. Idk. Plus weird to say u play rather stardew than hang, like, alonetime n playing is p normal
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Date: 22-10-2020 13:57
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Azriel wrote:
I mean
U couldve just said "its ok" and end it with that
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Date: 22-10-2020 13:57
Kit
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Kit wrote:
Azriel wrote:
I mean
U couldve just said "its ok" and end it with that
yeah that probably would have been the better way to go tbh im just bad at . lying . even if its a random white lie idk 

also afraid she'll read that as "shut up and dont tlak to me" and hit me back with an "oh ok then" 

but yea honsetly just i . god idk spend too much fucking time psychoanalyzing this shit im not a doctor
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Date: 22-10-2020 14:00
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GvcciGoddess wrote:
U should make up super wild stories when she asks be like “oh nothing special, someone confessed to murdering their dad in the forums and then kaj helped her get away from the cops”
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Date: 22-10-2020 14:42
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GvcciGoddess wrote:
Kit wrote:
"im gonna take a nap now" bitch we kNOW ! we 're not stupid ! we all know that when u sy that what u rly mean is "im gnna curl up in my bed that i hvent left yet and cry about this for the next 3-4 hours, immediately after our lil talk but it's definitely not your fault! im just letting u know that im really upset and now goign t otake a nap ! and if i fail my exam tmrw its because YOU dared bring up smth that made u uncomfortable and it ruined my study day and ur the reason i think im a failure !"
Why are u guys even friends tho it sounds like u basically hate her 
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Date: 22-10-2020 14:49
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callum wrote:
i hate that bc u do something online that isnt social media, u immediately have no life or smth 
this

my best friend also "plays" vp, bc she was curious but i don't think she plays it anymore
Date: 22-10-2020 14:56
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callum wrote:
i hate that bc u do something online that isnt social media, u immediately have no life or smth 
yup.

The only person outside of VP that I've told about it to is my boyfriend and he's chill with it. Like, he knows I'm aware that things like this or Club Penguin Rewritten are a bit juvenile but like, they help with my anxiety and are a good escape from adult world. & with vp, I have some really close friends who sometimes know more about me than irl friends. He's hung out with @Horcrux  and @SarKastic  xD. They're also just games? 

like, it's not as deep as people like to make it out to be xD. 
But yeah, I find it easier to not tell most people about it. If I talk about vp people, I just say "a friend of mine/ online friend of mine" 
Date: 22-10-2020 15:00 | Times changed: 1
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Kit wrote:
i cant  . i dont understand what this means 

me: "o im a lil uncomf bc idk how to answer this question and i dont really understand why ur asking it"

she comes by to smoke a cigarette n is just super mopey the whole time and then is like "o yeah i was kinda insulted by that" and idk we left things kinda weird ?

and now she's sending me a bunch of memes on tumblr and on whatsapp 

and idk how to respond to that at all im so fucking confused
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Date: 22-10-2020 16:39
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Gilmore wrote:
lol I'd dump that shit
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Date: 22-10-2020 16:46
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Kit wrote:
 how u gonna text me every goddamn day to deal w ur emotional problems n then the moment i respond b like "bye imma nap now" n then show the fuck up at my house bein grumpy n passive aggressive the whole time n then leave n 15min later b texting me fucking memes idgi
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Date: 22-10-2020 16:48
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