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grrrrr are u kidding me
Kit
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Kit wrote:
it's just like. super simple to me i guess and idk how he doesn't see it ? if you make plans for 8.30 w someone, then you simply tell your buddy "no thank you i appreciate the bubble tea offer but there are two people waiting for me at home with dinner so i gotta leave on time." and if you weigh your options and decide you'd rather get bubble tea, the very fucking LEAST you could do is start your text with "hey sorry, but i'm gonna be later so i can't make it." and "bubble tea for me ahaha" is ...... not it
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Date: 11-11-2020 09:53
Kit
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Kit wrote:
ouch wrote:
Kit wrote:
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Yes I think its more abt that, if he doesn't feel the need to say sorry for it it doesn't help to ask him to say sorry either, idk both r just, weird 
yeah im ean if he really doesn't feel like he has anything to apologize for after this he's .... just like very much not the person i thought he was tbh.

like idk i'll apologize for plenty of shit. i'm def also at fault here. i should have waited and not texted him immediately, i should've edited my text so my tone didn't come off as scolding, i shouldn't have assumed he'd make it on time when i could have known that he wouldn't  & i'm sorry for all those things. like i was already apologizing in the same conversation where he's insisting he has nothing 2 apologize for idk 

its just weird idk i really thought he was . more sensitive and reasonable than this i guess
Not everyone sensitive 
yah i know i just thought he was bc honestly i would not be hanging out w him otherwise bc i'm a weak sensitive lil shit but like, we've been best friends for like 2 years . idk he is still sensitive i just think (hope ?) he has other shit going on he's taking out on me idk
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Date: 11-11-2020 09:55
Kit
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Kit wrote:
straight up tho if he doesn't text / come by in the next 24 hours i'm going to have a fucking meltdown bc this cold shoulder bullshit is so fucking stressful and i'm Weak and like. yeah idfk what his problem is rn but i'm stressing and if he's gonna sulk about this shit for that goddamn long like. he's gonna sulk forever
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Date: 11-11-2020 09:56
Kit
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Kit wrote:
ngl chief his reaction was genuinely fucking upsetting like . he's never been that harsh or rude or combative it was rly upsetting and totally fucking uncalled for and aggressive as fuck . his whole "ok imma go sulk now" fuckin petty.

n its like truly the only thing i can think about and my brain will not fucking STOP until it's resolved and liek. i have things to do. but instead i'm going to be fucking floored by the stress of my best friend is suddenly furious w me and not talking to me anymore  ...
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Date: 11-11-2020 09:59 | Times changed: 1
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Marcelien wrote:
have u talked to ur other friend about this?... like, if they are on ur side, u guys can talk to him together and say his attitude and reactions are not ok.
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Date: 11-11-2020 10:03
Kit
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Kit wrote:
Marcelien wrote:
have u talked to ur other friend about this?... like, if they are on ur side, u guys can talk to him together and say his attitude and reactions are not ok.
yeah we were both pretty annoyed which is why i texted him, i just dont want him to feel ganged up on? which i think he does since he brought up how i apparently  never call her on stuff like this ? (nvm that i definitely do lmao)
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Date: 11-11-2020 10:09
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Dwaal wrote:
It's not okay... Kinda feels like he started to guilt trip you, so his wrongdoing would not be seen as obvious as it really was ):
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Date: 11-11-2020 10:22
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Kit wrote:
Nesta wrote:
Nesta wrote:
Who td cancels 1hour before bc they will be 30mins late when u already have postponed to eat a later dinner, lmaofff for bubbletea. Is ur friend real
And was supposed to bring a part of the meal like... 
And then say they didn't do anything wrong bc you misread each other?? That's not even tje fking issue thqt started it 
EXACTLY ugh. his whole "we both havent done anything wrong here" like ??????? idk 

its not the canceling plans
it's not the lack of apology & general shitty attitude
it's the combination canceling plans and lack of apology & general shitty attitude
that was far out
Date: 11-11-2020 10:34
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Kit wrote:
ngl chief his reaction was genuinely fucking upsetting like . he's never been that harsh or rude or combative it was rly upsetting and totally fucking uncalled for and aggressive as fuck . his whole "ok imma go sulk now" fuckin petty.

n its like truly the only thing i can think about and my brain will not fucking STOP until it's resolved and liek. i have things to do. but instead i'm going to be fucking floored by the stress of my best friend is suddenly furious w me and not talking to me anymore  ...
this is very relatable and sucks
you should try do something, but who am i too speak. the last time i was in vp drama i spent  3  days drowning in it and then the rest of the week trying to get it out of my head lmao
Date: 11-11-2020 10:37
Kit
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Kit wrote:
lmfao aight now he hasnt said ANYTHING about it but is in the group chat making plans for dnd like Nothing happened omfg
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Date: 11-11-2020 12:02
Kit
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Kit wrote:
messaged him: "hey i don’t mean to bother you or upset you or anything, i’m just still kinda upset and confused about our conversation last night, & it’s been really bothering me. i don’t like the idea of leaving things w both of us upset or angry at the other person & idk would like to talk about it or whatever if you wanted? & if not i get that too. i’ve just been really overthinking this for the past 12+ hours and i don’t really understand where we’re at idk." 

no response

sad god my brains r scrambled fuckin eggs rn
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Date: 11-11-2020 13:15
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GvcciGoddess wrote:
Ok but wtf is bubble tea
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Date: 11-11-2020 13:26
Evangelion
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Evangelion wrote:
ah man that sucks but is also relatable since my friend used to do that to me like every time, to the point where i would be so hurt that id just cry on the floor (im a bit of a sensitive person when it comes to certain things.)

the shittier thing is that they would always come up with an excuse how it was actually MY fault that they did the things they did, not wanting to admit that they were in the wrong. 

Thankfully they have started to admit their mistakes and have apologized to me.

I think its good that you talk about the things they do, just letting them know what they just cant get away with everything and act however they want. Sometimes people do shitty things, and its worse if they dont acknowledge it and try to give out and excuse after an excuse instead of admitting their mistakes and growing as a person.
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Date: 11-11-2020 13:28
Evangelion
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Evangelion wrote:
GvcciGoddess wrote:
Ok but wtf is bubble tea
its a tea, often a sweet one (like milk tea), that includes small balls made of either like weird juice that pops when you bite in to them, or brown sugar. 

very tasty, just kind of expensive
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Date: 11-11-2020 13:31
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GvcciGoddess wrote:
Evangelion wrote:
GvcciGoddess wrote:
Ok but wtf is bubble tea
its a tea, often a sweet one (like milk tea), that includes small balls made of either like weird juice that pops when you bite in to them, or brown sugar. 

very tasty, just kind of expensive
“Would u like some balls in ur tea?”
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Date: 11-11-2020 13:32
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