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DandelionMarie
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DandelionMarie wrote:
I feel like it has alot to do with what you are diagnosed with. I have had a long journey with psych wards 2. I was misdiagnosed with Bpd and the way they treated me with that diagnosis on the paper was inhuman, much like the way they treat you. I got a new diagnosis some time ago and it is Schizoaffective disorder and the way they treat me with that is SOOO much better, its like they suddenly care. The thing is that I have always been me no matter what diagnosis I have had and it just show how much diagnosis matter in the psych, when it should not. It should matter about the person, it should matter about the hurt

Not saying its like that for you, but I wanted to share a little of my story to let you know that you are not alone. You deserve to be treated like a human being with a life that's valuable, because your life is, and they don't show that to you. It´s crazy that the psych makes you believe that your life ain´t worth anything, but it is
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Date: 29-11-2020 13:13
Peachmilk
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peachmilk wrote:
DandelionMarie wrote:
I feel like it has alot to do with what you are diagnosed with. I have had a long journey with psych wards 2. I was misdiagnosed with Bpd and the way they treated me with that diagnosis on the paper was inhuman, much like the way they treat you. I got a new diagnosis some time ago and it is Schizoaffective disorder and the way they treat me with that is SOOO much better, its like they suddenly care. The thing is that I have always been me no matter what diagnosis I have had and it just show how much diagnosis matter in the psych, when it should not. It should matter about the person, it should matter about the hurt

Not saying its like that for you, but I wanted to share a little of my story to let you know that you are not alone. You deserve to be treated like a human being with a life that's valuable, because your life is, and they don't show that to you. It´s crazy that the psych makes you believe that your life ain´t worth anything, but it is
Why do they treat ppl with borderline so badly?
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Date: 29-11-2020 13:15
Bloodflowers
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Bloodflowers wrote:
DandelionMarie wrote:
I feel like it has alot to do with what you are diagnosed with. I have had a long journey with psych wards 2. I was misdiagnosed with Bpd and the way they treated me with that diagnosis on the paper was inhuman, much like the way they treat you. I got a new diagnosis some time ago and it is Schizoaffective disorder and the way they treat me with that is SOOO much better, its like they suddenly care. The thing is that I have always been me no matter what diagnosis I have had and it just show how much diagnosis matter in the psych, when it should not. It should matter about the person, it should matter about the hurt

Not saying its like that for you, but I wanted to share a little of my story to let you know that you are not alone. You deserve to be treated like a human being with a life that's valuable, because your life is, and they don't show that to you. It´s crazy that the psych makes you believe that your life ain´t worth anything, but it is
i was diagnosed bipolar but i haven't felt the way i'm treated has been that different since. feels like they think i should jsut get over it and go home most of the time
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Date: 29-11-2020 13:22
Bloodflowers
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Bloodflowers wrote:
peachmilk wrote:
I'm sorry you had to experience that. This is horrible.
thanks
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Date: 29-11-2020 13:23
DandelionMarie
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DandelionMarie wrote:
peachmilk wrote:
DandelionMarie wrote:
I feel like it has alot to do with what you are diagnosed with. I have had a long journey with psych wards 2. I was misdiagnosed with Bpd and the way they treated me with that diagnosis on the paper was inhuman, much like the way they treat you. I got a new diagnosis some time ago and it is Schizoaffective disorder and the way they treat me with that is SOOO much better, its like they suddenly care. The thing is that I have always been me no matter what diagnosis I have had and it just show how much diagnosis matter in the psych, when it should not. It should matter about the person, it should matter about the hurt

Not saying its like that for you, but I wanted to share a little of my story to let you know that you are not alone. You deserve to be treated like a human being with a life that's valuable, because your life is, and they don't show that to you. It´s crazy that the psych makes you believe that your life ain´t worth anything, but it is
Why do they treat ppl with borderline so badly?
Well its very complex but in my experience the system has like a ranking system , and basically bpd is at the bottom. They believe that people with BPD should not be admitted because they get worse. They believe in making you responsible for your own health and choices, so by sending you home where you may DIE is better, because idk, its stupid. The treatment is often based on that everything that has happened to you is your fault. I got told I could react different when my mother hit me to not be hit, like wtf. People with bpd is often in crisis, and are hurting ALOT inside, maybe more than others. I think its just their culture, it´s in their "bone marrow" in a way. Hard to explain. I believe that people should be cared about no matter the diagnosis, everybody deserves to be seen and heard <3
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Date: 29-11-2020 13:24
DandelionMarie
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DandelionMarie wrote:
Bloodflowers wrote:
DandelionMarie wrote:
I feel like it has alot to do with what you are diagnosed with. I have had a long journey with psych wards 2. I was misdiagnosed with Bpd and the way they treated me with that diagnosis on the paper was inhuman, much like the way they treat you. I got a new diagnosis some time ago and it is Schizoaffective disorder and the way they treat me with that is SOOO much better, its like they suddenly care. The thing is that I have always been me no matter what diagnosis I have had and it just show how much diagnosis matter in the psych, when it should not. It should matter about the person, it should matter about the hurt

Not saying its like that for you, but I wanted to share a little of my story to let you know that you are not alone. You deserve to be treated like a human being with a life that's valuable, because your life is, and they don't show that to you. It´s crazy that the psych makes you believe that your life ain´t worth anything, but it is
i was diagnosed bipolar but i haven't felt the way i'm treated has been that different since. feels like they think i should jsut get over it and go home most of the time
It´s soooooo stupid. what country are you living in? 
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Date: 29-11-2020 13:24
Bloodflowers
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Bloodflowers wrote:
DandelionMarie wrote:
Bloodflowers wrote:
DandelionMarie wrote:
I feel like it has alot to do with what you are diagnosed with. I have had a long journey with psych wards 2. I was misdiagnosed with Bpd and the way they treated me with that diagnosis on the paper was inhuman, much like the way they treat you. I got a new diagnosis some time ago and it is Schizoaffective disorder and the way they treat me with that is SOOO much better, its like they suddenly care. The thing is that I have always been me no matter what diagnosis I have had and it just show how much diagnosis matter in the psych, when it should not. It should matter about the person, it should matter about the hurt

Not saying its like that for you, but I wanted to share a little of my story to let you know that you are not alone. You deserve to be treated like a human being with a life that's valuable, because your life is, and they don't show that to you. It´s crazy that the psych makes you believe that your life ain´t worth anything, but it is
i was diagnosed bipolar but i haven't felt the way i'm treated has been that different since. feels like they think i should jsut get over it and go home most of the time
It´s soooooo stupid. what country are you living in? 
sweden
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Date: 29-11-2020 13:25
DandelionMarie
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DandelionMarie wrote:
Bloodflowers wrote:
DandelionMarie wrote:
Bloodflowers wrote:
i was diagnosed bipolar but i haven't felt the way i'm treated has been that different since. feels like they think i should jsut get over it and go home most of the time
It´s soooooo stupid. what country are you living in? 
sweden
Do you think everyone is treated that way, like you are? and why do you think they treat you like that?
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Date: 29-11-2020 13:26
Bloodflowers
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Bloodflowers wrote:
DandelionMarie wrote:
Bloodflowers wrote:
DandelionMarie wrote:
It´s soooooo stupid. what country are you living in? 
sweden
Do you think everyone is treated that way, like you are? and why do you think they treat you like that?
Yes it's a common thing but then like with everything you have those people who disagree and has gotten super great help. Lack of money/resources maybe?? idk. You're in there to sleep and get meds and then they contact regular psych and say you've been there, that's just how it is. 
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Date: 29-11-2020 13:29
DandelionMarie
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DandelionMarie wrote:
Bloodflowers wrote:
DandelionMarie wrote:
Bloodflowers wrote:
sweden
Do you think everyone is treated that way, like you are? and why do you think they treat you like that?
Yes it's a common thing but then like with everything you have those people who disagree and has gotten super great help. Lack of money/resources maybe?? idk. You're in there to sleep and get meds and then they contact regular psych and say you've been there, that's just how it is. 
So psych in your country your in there to be stabilized and then right out again? <3
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Date: 29-11-2020 13:31
Bloodflowers
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Bloodflowers wrote:
DandelionMarie wrote:
Bloodflowers wrote:
DandelionMarie wrote:
Do you think everyone is treated that way, like you are? and why do you think they treat you like that?
Yes it's a common thing but then like with everything you have those people who disagree and has gotten super great help. Lack of money/resources maybe?? idk. You're in there to sleep and get meds and then they contact regular psych and say you've been there, that's just how it is. 
So psych in your country your in there to be stabilized and then right out again? <3
yea pretty much but they want you out as soon as possible. shortest inpatient i've had was 4h between 4am and 8am
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Date: 29-11-2020 13:34
Godis
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Godis wrote:
It's a shame you feel so bad and tried to take your life. It's also a pity that psychiatry can't help, as they should be able to do. I think you should try to seek care at a health center/hospital and talk to a psychologist/psychotherapist because they can probably help you better than psychiatry.

To try to get you on other thoughts, I want to ask:
Do you have a bright spot in your life?
Are you looking forward to something fun that will happen in the future?
Do you have something you're happy about that you can do more?
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Date: 29-11-2020 14:15
Bloodflowers
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Bloodflowers wrote:
Godis wrote:
It's a shame you feel so bad and tried to take your life. It's also a pity that psychiatry can't help, as they should be able to do. I think you should try to seek care at a health center/hospital and talk to a psychologist/psychotherapist because they can probably help you better than psychiatry.

To try to get you on other thoughts, I want to ask:
Do you have a bright spot in your life?
Are you looking forward to something fun that will happen in the future?
Do you have something you're happy about that you can do more?
i already have contact with regular outpatient psych. my next appointment is right before christmas, my last appointment was in september. I'm not allowed to go to the health care center and see a therapist because they only treat depression/anxiety.

The only reason I have to stick around rn is so I can go to work, I have motivation for nothing else.
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Date: 29-11-2020 14:32
Godis
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Godis wrote:
Bloodflowers wrote:
Godis wrote:
It's a shame you feel so bad and tried to take your life. It's also a pity that psychiatry can't help, as they should be able to do. I think you should try to seek care at a health center/hospital and talk to a psychologist/psychotherapist because they can probably help you better than psychiatry.

To try to get you on other thoughts, I want to ask:
Do you have a bright spot in your life?
Are you looking forward to something fun that will happen in the future?
Do you have something you're happy about that you can do more?
i already have contact with regular outpatient psych. my next appointment is right before christmas, my last appointment was in september. I'm not allowed to go to the health care center and see a therapist because they only treat depression/anxiety.

The only reason I have to stick around rn is so I can go to work, I have motivation for nothing else.
It's good that you have someone to talk to. It feels strange that the health center can't talk about such things. If I were a curator (something similar) and worked there, I would have received all the topics of conversation.

Can you try to think that it will be good and fun at work and fun to meet all your co-workers?
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Date: 29-11-2020 15:10
Bloodflowers
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Bloodflowers wrote:
Godis wrote:
Bloodflowers wrote:
Godis wrote:
It's a shame you feel so bad and tried to take your life. It's also a pity that psychiatry can't help, as they should be able to do. I think you should try to seek care at a health center/hospital and talk to a psychologist/psychotherapist because they can probably help you better than psychiatry.

To try to get you on other thoughts, I want to ask:
Do you have a bright spot in your life?
Are you looking forward to something fun that will happen in the future?
Do you have something you're happy about that you can do more?
i already have contact with regular outpatient psych. my next appointment is right before christmas, my last appointment was in september. I'm not allowed to go to the health care center and see a therapist because they only treat depression/anxiety.

The only reason I have to stick around rn is so I can go to work, I have motivation for nothing else.
It's good that you have someone to talk to. It feels strange that the health center can't talk about such things. If I were a curator (something similar) and worked there, I would have received all the topics of conversation.

Can you try to think that it will be good and fun at work and fun to meet all your co-workers?
i work independently. i just don't want to make it difficult for everyone else now that i'm alive can't stay in the hospital while i'm supposed to take over for people who are home sick etc etc
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Date: 29-11-2020 15:13
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