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"happiness is a choice"
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ouch wrote:
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if happiness is a choice why would ppl choose to be depressed
laziness? 
For me, im just too lazy but generally I manage very well to drag myself out of the bad n into a more positive happy mindset by working on it or forcing it until it becomes true (not that long anyways). Ofc there r times where u have to b sad or whatever cus forever hapiness is unobtainable but theres a difference between trying and not, and u will most certainly feel a lot better if u try and don't just sink into it 
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Date: 09-01-2021 21:36
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Imani wrote:
i agree. i think dwelling on things you can't control won't make you happy so if you do it then you're choosing unhappiness. you can choose happiness by changing what you do have control over. you have to accept that you can't control everything, when you do that you choose to be happy. 
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Date: 09-01-2021 21:37
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like i literally had suicidal depression from age 13-19 and i didnt' feel better until i decided to do the work to feel better. it was absolutely a choice.
Yeah same, idk it wasn't rlly that much working but I realized, I didn't have it as bad as I thought, and also forcing happiness works for me idk, the whole mindset of everything is fine, and it truly rlly is fine. Blah blah 
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Claire wrote:
ouch wrote:
Claire wrote:
like i literally had suicidal depression from age 13-19 and i didnt' feel better until i decided to do the work to feel better. it was absolutely a choice.
Yeah same, idk it wasn't rlly that much working but I realized, I didn't have it as bad as I thought, and also forcing happiness works for me idk, the whole mindset of everything is fine, and it truly rlly is fine. Blah blah 
i did have it as bad as i thought i did lmao. but that doesnt mean i cant create joy for myself and find things in this world to live for.
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Date: 09-01-2021 21:39
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kruspersille wrote:
im just asking cause i found this btw 
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uhyre wrote:
 dont think it should be interpreted as literally as "chose to be happy" and instantly u r but like. chose to make happier decisions. happier choices. its not either or. its a sliding scale of bad to good
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Date: 09-01-2021 21:41
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ouch wrote:
Claire wrote:
ouch wrote:
Claire wrote:
like i literally had suicidal depression from age 13-19 and i didnt' feel better until i decided to do the work to feel better. it was absolutely a choice.
Yeah same, idk it wasn't rlly that much working but I realized, I didn't have it as bad as I thought, and also forcing happiness works for me idk, the whole mindset of everything is fine, and it truly rlly is fine. Blah blah 
i did have it as bad as i thought i did lmao. but that doesnt mean i cant create joy for myself and find things in this world to live for.
I mean I had it bad but only cus I was wallowing in it, no point in wallowing, n when I stopped, I was fine. N now im fine. Goodbye sadness. I was just, what is the POINT of being sad, what is the POINT of being crazy, n then,  I wasn't any of those things anymore, thank god 
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Date: 09-01-2021 21:42
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Claire wrote:
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im just asking cause i found this btw 

liek the fact that she even put 'ok boomer' in the title tells me shes coming from a place of inexperience and naivety 

she's been to three therapy sessions. lmao. try three sessions a month for six years and ill start to take her seriously.
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kruspersille wrote:
lamb wrote:
 dont think it should be interpreted as literally as "chose to be happy" and instantly u r but like. chose to make happier decisions. happier choices. its not either or. its a sliding scale of bad to good
i agree
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Claire wrote:
Claire wrote:
kruspersille wrote:
im just asking cause i found this btw 

liek the fact that she even put 'ok boomer' in the title tells me shes coming from a place of inexperience and naivety 

she's been to three therapy sessions. lmao. try three sessions a month for six years and ill start to take her seriously.
this little girl is at the very beginning of her journey. she's not at the point yet where she should be espousing knowledge to anyone else. 
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lamb wrote:
 dont think it should be interpreted as literally as "chose to be happy" and instantly u r but like. chose to make happier decisions. happier choices. its not either or. its a sliding scale of bad to good
Perhaps "better" would be an even better term than happier
Date: 09-01-2021 21:43
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Claire wrote:
Claire wrote:
Claire wrote:
kruspersille wrote:
im just asking cause i found this btw 

liek the fact that she even put 'ok boomer' in the title tells me shes coming from a place of inexperience and naivety 

she's been to three therapy sessions. lmao. try three sessions a month for six years and ill start to take her seriously.
this little girl is at the very beginning of her journey. she's not at the point yet where she should be espousing knowledge to anyone else. 
ok boomer is what zoomers say to dismiss anything older people say. three therapy sessions and this girl thinks she knows anything lmao. wow.
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Date: 09-01-2021 21:44
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kruspersille wrote:
Claire wrote:
Claire wrote:
Claire wrote:

liek the fact that she even put 'ok boomer' in the title tells me shes coming from a place of inexperience and naivety 

she's been to three therapy sessions. lmao. try three sessions a month for six years and ill start to take her seriously.
this little girl is at the very beginning of her journey. she's not at the point yet where she should be espousing knowledge to anyone else. 
ok boomer is what zoomers say to dismiss anything older people say. three therapy sessions and this girl thinks she knows anything lmao. wow.
omg claire
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Date: 09-01-2021 21:45
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uhyre wrote:
Heaven wrote:
lamb wrote:
 dont think it should be interpreted as literally as "chose to be happy" and instantly u r but like. chose to make happier decisions. happier choices. its not either or. its a sliding scale of bad to good
Perhaps "better" would be an even better term than happier
no i think they mean different things

a good choice doesnt necessarily make u happy and vice versa

better is certainly the better term for like, long term happiness, but short term they dont necessarily mean the same thing
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Date: 09-01-2021 21:45
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Claire wrote:
kruspersille wrote:
Claire wrote:
Claire wrote:
this little girl is at the very beginning of her journey. she's not at the point yet where she should be espousing knowledge to anyone else. 
ok boomer is what zoomers say to dismiss anything older people say. three therapy sessions and this girl thinks she knows anything lmao. wow.
omg claire
this girl is arrogant.
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