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"happiness is a choice"
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agree or disagree?
i used to watch shay carl n the shaytards vlogs when i was a teen n he always used to say "happiness is a choice" n i was like YEAH so inspirational  but now that im older n not an actual kid, i feel like thats a really privileged thing to say
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99% agree 
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i think that it is basically just a stupid inconsiderate simplistic way to view things n yeah also a rly privileged thing to say. BUT there is a part of me that agrees in the sense that...'happiness' (wtever that is) requires that u make certain choices n put in work i think. but like on the whole i disagree
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you can effect whether or how much happiness you experience but it's not all up to you. if you could control your mood completely then your would be crazy, no? not being affected by what life throws at you. but of course it's up to you not to soak in sadness whenever sadness comes your way, and to work towards a life where you feel joy.
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U can choose to do things that better your life, but in no way do i agree that u can choose to be happy.
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in some way i agree but not lie, the literal interpretation

i 100% believe u have to actually make the choices that make u happy to actually be happy, like wallowing and letting life run its curse isnt going t get u anything. if u never take a step to bettering u never get better. i dont believe itll ever get u 100% u now, happy, but it will certinly get u further than 0% u kno
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i dont agree with the shallow way a lot of people mean it when they say it. inspo quotes can go off themselves
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ouch wrote:
99% agree 
Mentally ill ppl that wallow in their own sadness and sickness goes under the agree n ppl not good off (disabled idk, extreme poverty) do not go under it, tho I guess it depends where u r from. Generally I think ppl r just too lazy/unwilling to make themselves happy n thats why they go against the whole notion  that u can make urself happy practically no matter bit it is what it id, they can keep being sad. 

Also idk if its true but I think I've heard that ppl who live in like non-western countries r generally happier but also ig its cus they r more adapted to making THEMSELVES happy instead of getting handed things on a plate (literally lmfao).
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yea i think so 

if youre priveleged or not either way you have the choice to accept your circumstances and find joy where you can and create the life that will bring you the most joy.

you absolutely can control the way you feel and you can chose to do things and be around people that bring you joy. you create your own life and i choose all the time to create joy for myself.
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Agree
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Also I don't think happy means u go around being like uwuw all smiles all the time but there r ppl that just can not b arsed to do anything abt their sadness or whatever and still they complain all the time n thats when   I would tell them  hapiness is a choice anyway, even tho they would probably not listen cus ppl tend to want sympathy but I won't eventry to give any ifthey don't even try
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if happiness is a choice why would ppl choose to be depressed
laziness? 
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kruspersille wrote:
if happiness is a choice why would ppl choose to be depressed
laziness? 
people dont choose to be depressed but once youre depressed you can choose to get better or not
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With nuance to it, yes to a degree. 
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like i literally had suicidal depression from age 13-19 and i didnt' feel better until i decided to do the work to feel better. it was absolutely a choice.
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you can work towards it but it's never a permanent state 
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